what's the best age to get marry
By vera0571
@vera0571 (165)
China
7 responses
@joyadalia (1408)
• Philippines
22 Aug 08
I don't think that there is a best age that everyone should abide to. But marrying around 25 when your career and your life is stable is good enough for me. Marrying in your late 30 (for women) may not give you kids.
@SHAMRACK (8576)
• India
21 Aug 08
Dear friend,
I hope more than age it is mental preparation and psychical condition that matters for marriage if one is biologically better to reproduce and one is mentally prepared to hand a married life I hope that would be perfect time to marry.
@maximax8 (31046)
• United Kingdom
21 Aug 08
I think that the best range to get married is 22 to 27 then have a first baby between the ages of 25 and 30 for the lady, it doesn't matter so much what age the man is. Then have a second baby or even more subsequent babies before age 35, 40 at the latest. Not all couples meet when they are at the ideal age for getting married.
@sirrob (4108)
• Philippines
21 Aug 08
that depends on how ready you are to engage in a serious relationship. there is no way out when you are there already, unless divorce is not prohibited in your place. one thing that is very important before you tie the knot is, ask yourself this questions. are you going to be happy with this man/woman in the coming days after marriage? did you know this person well and that you have accepted the person? are you emotionally ready to get married with this person? or you are just pressured by people around you or your age perhaps?
but if you are female and you already past 30 years old there are already a higher risk in pregnancy to have some complications if you choose to have babies.
but in the end it's your choice to make and no one should be upfront to to hold you on what to do in your life.
@meiji15 (664)
• Philippines
21 Aug 08
i think there is no such thing as the best age to get married. when i graduated from college, i gave myself a deadline---when im 23, i should have gotten married. im almost 23 and i have yet to find a boyfriend. so much on having a deadline.
right now, im happy with my life. i may not be married and i may not have a BF, though im more than contented. my views have shifted. i do not need a deadline. when i find the right guy, then probably, marriage will follow.
@Sweatyeddy (6)
• United States
21 Aug 08
I dont think that age is really a factor in getting married, i think its more about the maturity level of the two. Also finacial status, religion, careers factor in as well.
@darksorrow (4666)
• Bangladesh
21 Aug 08
I think age should not be a factor for marrying. The best time for marrying is when you can earn enough to give your family a good life.