is it best to hang out with friends after a break up?

India
August 21, 2008 9:06am CST
well i do feel that one should spend more time with friends after a break up since they will understand you and give you support rather then sitting at home alone and crying... what do you think?
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@airamana (36)
• Philippines
23 Aug 08
i prefer that you shouldn't spend time with your friends after a break up..because you should give time for yourself and think things out....Your friends might get affected by how you react to them and they will have a hard time adjusting to your mood....i prefer that they should not see me first at my time of grief or whatever you may call it...
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• Philippines
22 Aug 08
for me, yes. friends can help you get over the pain of a breakup and give you their full support. it's better to go out rather than being alone, crying and feeling sorry for yourself. it won't help matters any except to make you feel even worse.
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@Shawchert (1094)
• United States
21 Aug 08
Of coarse it is best to hang out with friends, it helps you get your mind off things, or even talk about them. but you may want to choose the right friend to hang out with because if you call your lovestruck friend well it might break your heart a little more because she or he will talk about their loved one and you just broke up with yours. so choose who to be with wisely. Only a person knows their friends well. I always try to get out with a friend if something happens like a breakup or something, it helps get my mind to calm down so I can deal with the problem later.
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@p3y5566 (171)
• Malaysia
21 Aug 08
Hi, nice to meet you here. I agree that is it best to hang out with friends after a break up.It is useless if you just sitting at home alone and crying. Why dont you hang out with friend and have some fun with them or ask them for some suggestion how to make you forgot the unhappy things? Friends have always have an important role in our life. We can dont have partner, but we cant dont have friend. If you unhappy, you can share it with you friends, i think friends is our best audience ! Have a nice day and happy my lotting! =)
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