how old were you when you had your first love?
By jhl930
@jhl930 (3601)
United States
August 21, 2008 1:27pm CST
i know that most of us have that story about our first love or what we thought was our first love at the time, so i was just wondering about all of you, do you care to tell us all about your first love and how much that person meant to you? i know that i had what i thought was my first love when i was around 15 and i was in high school, she was everything a younger guy wanted..she was older..more experienced, pretty, and i really thought that i was in love with this girl, to the point where i dropped the friends that i was hanging with and all of that just to be with her...so i was just wondering about all of your stories...don't be shy to tell us all...thanks for taking the time out of your day to read my discussion and i hope respond to it, and i hope that you all have a great day and the rest of your night is great as well!
6 responses
@baileycows (3665)
• United States
21 Aug 08
I am not really sure. It was not real love but probably 14 or so. I would say that my one true love has some along and I was 24.
@misty99 (736)
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25 Aug 08
It was mid fourth year high school when we got into our relationship.That would be between 15 0r 16 years old.It is something i kept from my parents since they prohibit it.It's either go on with the relationship or finish our studies.It's a good thing i chose my studies.....it was painful and moving on was very hard.Maybe it was my first love.
@rmuxagirl (7548)
• United States
21 Aug 08
My first love wow. I was 16 when i had my first boyfriend. We dated for one month lol. My true love I am with now, we meet 6 months ago and I think that's the important one. My first boyfriend was one of my friends. We started dating because his date at a dance deserted him and I stayed with him the whole night. We ended up kissing and it was a cute beginning, not so cute ending, but thats another story.
@xParanoiax (6987)
• United States
24 Aug 08
The one I consider my first truest love was when I was 14. He was sixteen, but I was always the one who seemed older and he the younger.
I loved him with every fiber of my being and would've tried my dangedest to give him the world despite my issues at the time. We'd weathered personal trouble, his small cheating (if you can call any cheating, small), and were doing okay...and then his issues (we were both messed up in the head, he thought I'd be better off without him) broke our relationship at the worst time possible. I was struggling with my depression, I needed him.
Losing him very nearly killed me, and I kinda went a little crazy for a month or so afterwards. And only made it through because of my best friend at the time.
Two years later he came back and has been trying to make it right ever since, even knowing I have no capacity to take him back...at least not in the foreseeable future.
His apology and our discussion was long and tearful, his friend and my friend who I'd adopted as a brother had been mediating at the time..which I think helped.
I probably wouldn't have been able to talk to him at all otherwise.
I'll always love him, and we still talk too.
@shadowkill (148)
• Philippines
22 Aug 08
truth to tell...
I haven't been in love...
for i really don't know how can you tell that...
that feeling of yours is really love...
and I really did not feel anything funny or whatever it is...
to anyone...
@hindichinese (748)
• Philippines
21 Aug 08
I think I was 20 that time and my girl was 15. We just met through SMS and then met one day and then thats it.(She's not my 1st love)
My First love has just arrived this year it was way back few months ago when I met a girl near in our place and really falls into her. So that I made a move on how to know her more, and it worked.
