Do you often argue with your partner?

Right now the person that I have the most arguements with is my daughter, I think that a vacation will be nice but if one confronts the sames issues the same way one will always need a vacation. lol It will be nice if your friend once in a while try to listen also vs arguing right away, it might make a difference, as no one is trying to win, and maybe her husband will also try to be a better listener to her too.(tho some people just love to argue reason or no reason)

My husband and I hardly ever argue. When we do they can be humdingers, but it doesn't happen much at all. You have to learn to communicate with your spouse. Talking about things when you are not arguing is a great way to fix them. After an argument wait a day or so and then bring the topic up and figure out some common ground so another argument doesn't happen about the same thing. There is nothing better for a relationship than communication!

I think all couples argue at some point in their life. But It is all important that both parties sit down and find some common ground. It also important that both people have time away from each other to persue their own interests. And then try to talk to each other as much as possible.

Hi! I can say I am so lucky coz my hubby and I barely argue. If every we have arguments, it would always be my fault..haha. Being too sensitive sometimes and coz of my temper too. But this argument will just take for an overnight. We never had a huge fight, it was always a misunderstanding. If every we have argument, we let each other cool down first and then discuss about it. Explain each other's side and after things cleared out, we asked forgiveness. Sometimes, I am the one looking for reason for us to argue...haha. It's boring if you two don't argue very often. I considered our relationship lucky though, for not having argument all the time

My husband and I have only been together for six years but I was in two long term relationships before that where my exes were not good men. My current husband is a very decent, caring man and so I try to treat him well every day, expecting nothing in return for my efforts. What I noticed early on is that, the nicer I am to him, the nicer he is to me. I feel very badly for your friend because it is possible for her to get along with her husband if she tries being nice to him but I doubt she will try because she has so much anger.

It has been said when the two bulls eight the sufferers are the crass. So in this case of argument is nearly common in every family. First to begin with, Personally I have had severall argument with my wife, there is a day we held a seriouse argument in the year 2007 untill she went away for 13days I stayed alone with children. Whenever I call her she could pick or answer my phone call. On her coming back she came with her relatives and called my parents too. To come and try to help us settle the matter, of which it did'nt help at all because when the two of you argue over something, you alone are suppose to settle down your arguments. Again this week my neighbour who is a doctor working in the I C U. Told they had an argument whit his wife for almost the whole night. This when I realise that every family do argue.

Do you often argue with your partner? not often but sometimes if i share about my employee me and my wife always argue, how to make the employee have a good goal with they're job, my wife just give advice.

[i]Early part of our marriage, I will always start an argument! LOL! I was bored for sure and it seems that I am very sensitive and will always find thing to argue...My husband is a type of person who will just laugh and tease whenever I am acting this way and he knows that it is just because I am very bored and adjusting! So, he won't stop teasing until I will feel good! There are also times when I will email my husband everything I feel so he will know especially if I can't express it all orally! It helps a lot! What they need is only time to talk and discuss whatever differences they have and I am sure both of them will be open enough to listen![/i]

hi bebs, i argue with my partner. Because i love him very much.

All the time. I just cannot resist an argument. I will go on and on till we both are tired. She knows that I love to argue and is OK with that

Hi friend,I dont argue much with my hub or my hub doesn't do that.Even if we dont agree with the ideas and thoughts of each other we wont argue bcoz that will certainly develop into a big fight.peace and harmony in the family will get spoilt.We do argue also but not all the time ,thats very rare.thanks for sharing.happy mylotting.

Me and my husband very often fight maybe not fight only misunderstood.And also my husband dont like fight and also me too.But i do believe that theres always trials in relationship to make it stronger.Relationship is not always happy theres a lot of ingredint to have a strong relationship.

well ya sometimes , its human tendency......... u know 2 different people have different point of view

i guess couples really come to that situation.it is just a mater of handling it.for me being friends is a very helpful and effective way to make relationships survive and even more enjoyable.

Oh it is so sad a situation for your friend. I believe of all people, it should be to our spouse we should get along well with. When we married, we became just one flesh with our husband. And we made a vow in front of God. It was a very meaningful vow we had. It is unfortunate that after sometime instead of maintaining the sweetness of the relationship, it turns sour. I believe your friend and his spouse should go through marriage counselling. That will be helpful. Of course to avoid divorce. I pray it will never happen. Well in my own experience, arguments is but a spice of a relationship. Our relationship is not actually perfect because we are not perfect either. But one thing I've learned in my life is to just obey God's command that wife should submit to her husband. While my husband is obeying God's command that Husband should love her husband as Christ loves His church. Out of these commandments, both of us have learned not just to respect and give high regard to each other's feelings and yes to love each other more and more each day.

My boyfriend and I don't really argue, and I don't think that we can even say that we have argued, because that takes two people, and he has never showed any type of negativity in our relationship. Now I have nagged a little here and there, but he just listens and then we talk about it before it can even become what you speak of, it's really a great relationship, my boyfriend has never ever showed any type of discontent in over a year that I have been with him, I am so very happy. By him not expressing negativity I tend not to because there is no reason to really, things can be fixed by talking things over without fighting about things. It's sad to hear that your friend is so discontent with her relationship, they just need to calm down and handle things with good words and strategy, not threats and abusive words that hurt, that will just lead to a bad ending. Happy mylotting, and good luck to your friend.

Arguments are part of a growing relationship. It's normal to have arguments. I and my husband argue a lot. We've been married for 10 months and the arguments are often. What's important is we learn from those arguments.

before, we often agree also even on a very small things, but now we are tired of quarellings, so we just understand each other, if there is an argument, yeah divorce is not a good option, maybe they just lack communication, having a good communication maybe can help them in their arguments tell them that they should just understand their partners, though it is difficult at first, they would just get used to it, im so happy, that we are not arguing that much this time, unlike before, we are also like that..=)

I think if they care for each other they need to sit down and talk about it

before engaging with any one both should mutully understand each other but this is not the final step to stop arguement with parteners they both have compormise at some cases