what do you look for when getting in a relationship?

"... i mean when i look for a girl i am looking for a girl that has a good head on ther shoulders, who is smart,sweet,caring.." Aren't we all? Everybody has something basic they want from their partner, current or potential. Then they start to want more things. Normal. Same as you, I'd like my boyfriend to be caring, sweet, great sense of humour, takes charge sometimes (it's really nice since I suck at making decisions sometimes). So far that's it. =)

I did not do that. I mean am not looking for a thing or something when I get into a relationship. Because that beats the beauty of the relationship you have in a person. when I get into a relationship I would not expect anything from that person, if he turns out to be nice then it's great for he is that person and I can count on him on troubled times. And if he is not that good or if he has a bad character it is still OK, for at least he made an effort to be better just for me... I really did not look something for in a relationship, because if you have this expectation and your relationship did not met those expectation, that's the time your relationship to that person became sour and bitter. So why waste your time on dreams when there is reality at its best...

to be honest I look for someone who will put up with my crap. A person who sticks around even after seeing your flaws is someone special.