Will you mind?
By lynnchua
@lynnchua (3412)
Singapore
12 responses
@agent_alice (448)
• Philippines
22 Aug 08
It happened to me! I feel very uneasy during that very moment. I waited until we are home and ask him if she likes woman with long hair, thick make up, wearing short sleeves and miniskirt with high heels. He asked me why? I told him because he was looking at that lady for a long time while we are at the mall. He didn't answer at first, then I keep talking. I said if you like that kind of a lady, I can wear mini skirts too. LOL! because I don't wear one. I usually wear pants.
He told me not to worry about it. He said he just take a look at that view, and didn't notice it was long enough for me to notice about it. he said sorry to me, and assured me that he won't do it again, if it makes me uneasy. He loves me, he says.
And I believe him. And some would say its the nature of men to turn around when they see a beautiful women. They are just beautiful. But he loves me, that what matters most.
@prettyhanan (694)
• Malaysia
22 Aug 08
I will pinch her arms and will get away from there. If he loves me he will come to me.. If he doesn't I will find another partner or I will do the same thing to him but more worse than that. I will ask for phone number and make he jealous with it.
Of course I am.. He my boyfriend but why he want to watch another girl and not pay attention on me. If he loves me he wont do that. If he does it means I need to find a new one.
@lyzabelle (1668)
• Philippines
22 Aug 08
Me, I will be upset. I hate that every time
my boyfriend would stare at other woman. It's
okay to look but stare is very annoying. That
always pissed me off.
@metschica25 (5399)
• United States
25 Aug 08
Hey hey there
Of course I would be mad !! who wouldnt ! it would make it so much worse if we were talking about something important . I like all eyes on me too , so that just may hurt Lol.
@koharukusumi (1539)
• Malaysia
25 Aug 08
I think I would feel a lil bit jealous but I have my fantasies too so I would understand. It's normal for ppl to have fantasies. Most girls would fantasiez leonardo dicaprio or brad pitt but obviously you get what you deserve^^
@sweetie1026 (1718)
• Philippines
23 Aug 08
you" what are you looking at? I wouldn't mind at all. But then, i will tell him that, "honey i look better than her" don't you agree?
@darksorrow (4666)
• Bangladesh
22 Aug 08
There is nothing to mind. If you see a pretty girl or handsome boy then if you don't intend to you will look at him or her. So it will be wrong to mind on that. I would not mind if that happens to me.
@faln_angel1205 (1192)
• United States
22 Aug 08
I am not a jealous person and in fact i dont mind taking a peak once in a while myself, so chances are that i will look as well.
@polaris714 (607)
• Philippines
22 Aug 08
I would mind, but depending on the situation I would not let him know. If she really is pretty, I usually make a remark about how pretty she is, then get back to our topic of conversation.
@joyadalia (1408)
• Philippines
22 Aug 08
Depending on the situation, I might react. Even if I'm a girl I also like to look at girls who are really beautiful and dress real well. But if my man is ogling that neighbor girl I will definitely be mad . But if it's in the mall I wouldn't care as long he does not make a move to ask for the girl's number then I guess it's alright . But this really depends upon the situation. I might act differently each time .
@app3ls (63)
• Malaysia
22 Aug 08
I think no matter girls or boys will tend to look at pretty or handsome guys. This is normal. But i don't think if so will mean your partner doesn't love you. Just that human eyes like to see at pretty people & stuffs. Usually, we will talk about the person & share our views.
@TheHawkBat (669)
• United States
22 Aug 08
I wouldn't mind too much, its human nature, as long as they didn't pursue the other person. One of my friends parents told me "the day you stop looking is the day you die." And I think that is true, you will notice attractive people and be physically attracted to them. As long as that doesn't get in the way of the emotional attachment you have to the person you are with, I don't see that much of a problem with it.