The quickest way to get me not to do something

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is to volunteer me for it. My son's teacher came to meet him here at the house last week (he's special ed). When we started talking she said to me "So what do you do?" I said "Well I have my own business here on line and I stay home with the kids." Her response was "OOOOhhhh gooood, so then you can be my caller and organizer and such for when we have class parties and things." Not a question, just a statement. First of all, please don't make it out that I don't want to be involved in my kid's lives. I make Halloween goodie bags for all the classes, Holiday cookies, Valentine's Day treat bags, etc. But I DO NOT want to be the person that tries to organize a class party and have people hem and haw and then when they don't do what they're supposed to do, have to run around like a madman doing it all myself last minute. And please, don't EVER volunteer me for something, especially in a way that makes me think that you are assuming that because I'm a stay at home mom, my time is less important than yours because you're a teacher, or hold down some other 'worthy' job. Am I wrong to feel this way? It just rubbed me the wrong way.