Best friends husband had a baby with another woman!
By jensxtn
@jensxtn (25)
United States
August 22, 2008 12:41pm CST
My best friend of almost 20 years has just left her husband of 9 years because he cheated on her with a good friend of hers and the girl got pregnant and had a baby.My best friends name is Katrina.. Katrina has 4 sons by him and he had one from before they got married he in the Army and already pays for his first son and now pays for the new one and to top things off he doesnt pay for the ones they have together and she is pregnant again this time with a girl...I made a fake space up and he chats with the girl I pretend to be, but she still seems to be under his spell... WHAT DO I DO?
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@Amanda81587 (3042)
• United States
22 Aug 08
Well this is a hard subject because it something I really wouldnt get into.
This is really going to break your friends heart. The thing is usually once a cheater always a cheater. Your friend knows he cheats obviously because she has proof *baby* If she left him then that is a good thing bceause she can do way better without him anyways.
I suggest your friend take him to court for child support when they divorce. If she is thinking about going back with him then show her your space to convince her otherwise.
I know this is very unhealthy for the kids but then it will ruin them when they see their father cheating all the time as well. She deserves better and I hope she can see this as well.
This is really going to break your friends heart. The thing is usually once a cheater always a cheater. Your friend knows he cheats obviously because she has proof *baby* If she left him then that is a good thing bceause she can do way better without him anyways. I suggest your friend take him to court for child support when they divorce. If she is thinking about going back with him then show her your space to convince her otherwise. I know this is very unhealthy for the kids but then it will ruin them when they see their father cheating all the time as well. She deserves better and I hope she can see this as well.@jensxtn (25)
• United States
23 Aug 08
She even knows all about the fake space, but she seems to still be to accepting...He is military and he plans on getting out next year..When they were fist together he wasn't in the army and he never could support them...Im really scared for the kids...It wouldn't suprise me if he used to hit her.
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@asandifer87 (99)
• United States
3 Sep 08
You know, I haven't really given it much thought, but now that you ask this question... here is what I think is best for her and the kids. Katrina should only be worrying about what she NEEDS out of him. Child support and divorce papers! She has to move on because she is too good of a person to have to deal with his stupid drama. It's too much stress for her. Where could she meet someone better? I dunno. But she has to move on; not only for herself, but for her kids too! I can't even imagine how hard it really is, but she can do it with the support of you! and her family?
