should i make friendship with her or not?

can you trust that she can only be your friend . she has feelings for you , so it seems you will just be walking into fire , and someone may get hurt in the long run . if you have any and even the smallest amount of feelings for her the answer is no !

Oh my... i think it would be better if you set a distance between you. I believe she already know that you are married. because in school, if a student got a crush with his professor, definitely, she would know anything about her professor. And are you being married known to the school? If yes, then she should know that she doesn't have to do that. if you like her, then there are a little tendency that you would fall for her and commit a mistake against your wife and kids. It would be better if you would set a professional gap between you. it would be better for her. Because if you became friends...it would be more likely that she would fall into you more and more... worse if you do the same.

For me I can be a friend but with distance. Why? Cause I just don't want trouble and make a risk that my wife and my children will be affected and will get hurt.If I do like her I'll will still control myself,just tell her that their are guys who are single and can make her happy and deserving her love. So she will know her stand. Don't feel confused remember that your a married man and your chilren and your wife loves you very much don't be tempt. Have a nice day!

you know what, you don't need to be confused, your a professor right? you should know what is right or wrong,,you don't need anyone opinion its your own decision, you have your own life, its not a bad idea to get some opinion with others but for me you already grown up, you know what risk will happen....Do what is right?!you know what i mean, you already have wife and kids, don't even try to lose their trust to you...

You should call her parents and tell them to advise their daughter and tell them u being an respectful personality in the society can not do like this. If she does into some other bad element's hand she will get her life spoiled. If it is only upto friendship than it is ok otherwise do not go ahead.

hi, as many have advised .. do not even think of it i actually wanted to respond because .. i am really upset ... this thoughts should have never crossed your mind at all .. how will your reaction be if your wife, came home one day and said, some handsome guy is interested in her and the thought crossed her mind to have an affair with her ... ?? what if it was your father having the affair and you saw your mother crying over it everyday of your life while you were growing up .. ?? always think about others feeling when you intend to do something which is not right .. and it is a surprise that it happens to a teacher sorry if i was offensive or to harsh with you .. but .. why do you all allow it ..

if you think its a betrayal then you shouldnt be confused. dont do it your wife could leave you for this.i dont thinbk it is worth it. and the 22 yr old will leave you anyway., stay safe and dont do it

She told you, she loved you? Making friends with students is ok, but I think you should establish professional gap between them. You know that you have your family to take care and love. If you accept the friendship and that friendship will end up to something, then you will surely hurt not only your wife, but your kids as well. It's better avoid it. Just think of the consequences.

Obviously she has more in mind than a teacher/student relationship. Since you are married, if she doesn't know, you should tell her immediately. You should also tell her that you have no interest in anything more than the relationship that you should, which is teacher/student. You already know how you need to handle this situation..."I can't betray my wife and kids"....share that with your student. If she is not able to seperate the relationship from her fantasy or wishes then you may have to re-think this situation. Also I am sure that it could cause problems with your job if this relationship took on another role. Its never a good idea to mix your personal life with your job.

what the heck are you confused about? Let's see..you have a life, a family, your wife who you promised to love, cherish and be true to and to build a future with or.... a flirty little young-eyed tease who flatters you (hoping for a good grade)and will dump you in a dorm room minute tough one

Oh my god. have fear with God. You should not take her just because you like her. You didn't marry your wife just to betray her and commit sins against her. Your feelings is nothing serious. Have pity with your wife and children. Be contented with the love that they bring to you. I hope you do the right thing. Godbless..