how would you tackle the problems of your fiancee?

@vnp007 (83)
India
August 23, 2008 12:51am CST
i havd a friend, who is just engaged last week. his fiancee is being harassed by 3 boys of her college. how should he tackle such problem?
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5 responses
• United States
23 Aug 08
well yes there should be more information available on the problem. but i see it as she should be very careful involving her fiancee. most guys tend to get very vengeful toward someone harassing their fiancee,g/f,ect. that can pose a serious problem for both people in the relationship. but both parties should meet and keep calm as they discuss possible solutions. other than that the law may need to be involved.
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@ronaldinu (12422)
• Malta
17 Oct 08
I would seek help from the college administration. I would seek help from the local police if I don't receive help from the college administration.
@rsa101 (38148)
• Philippines
23 Aug 08
I think you should give more details about the issue why is he being harrassed? I personally could not give you any advice if you have an incomplete information about it.
@lucky_witch (2707)
• Philippines
24 Aug 08
How is she being harassed? I dont understand it well. Anyway, if she is being harassed, then they could approach the school administrator about that. If worse, then even report it in a police station. They dont have to face it alone, they have to ask for others help if they need to. I just hope my answer helped. Happy Posting!
• United States
24 Aug 08
Since you said they were college boys, she should go to the counselor of the college institution. Bring it to the counselors attention. It's not for the friend to decide on how he wants to tackle this problem. It's up to his fiance to do the right things. If the counselor doesn't resolve the situation or if it worsens, she needs to bring it to a law officers attention. She may have to put a restraining order against the boys. However..if she is a teacher of the college and these are the students that are harassing her..she should tell the college dean then a counselor if the dean dosen't resolve it. The last step there would be a law officer. If she was to bring in your friend, I'm afraid they (counselor, law officer and/or dean) would see it as your friend only knows hearsay. Therefore, he would be of no help to what they (counselor, law officer and/or dean) are trying to resolve of the harassment. Good luck to your friends fiance.