courtship over the phone
@jacquelane_does_2 (126)
Philippines
August 23, 2008 1:29am CST
AT the onset of technology this time, hundred and thousands of ways how we can express our thoughts and feelings to the one we love. What is your opinion with those men telling " i love you" for the first time over text messages.Are you agreeable with this? Do you not find this unethical for men to court over text messages only? What do you prefer? To be courted on phone, or personal.
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2 responses
@ashar123 (2357)
• India
23 Aug 08
This is a very sensual and complicated issue. Some things are just to be said, conveyed or quoted to ther face to face. The men who quote "I LOVE YOU" in writing on a piece of paper and give to the girl or by sending it through sms, they are scared of facing the girl. They think they are on the safe side doing so. There is an example of pigeon hiding its head only in the ground and thiking the cat will not catch her. Impossible.
@jacquelane_does_2 (126)
• Philippines
23 Aug 08
Thanks! On the other side of the coin, cellphones are a great help specially those who don't have brave heart to say it face to face heheheh.
@dhangski (3194)
• Philippines
23 Aug 08
If I'm still not married, I still prefer to be courted personally. I find courting through text messages is very unethical and unsincere. While courting personally, as in face to face will let you know if the guy is sincere and true with what he is feeling towards you.
Keep posting. HUGZ!
@jacquelane_does_2 (126)
• Philippines
23 Aug 08
thanks dhankz, yes we girls prefer to hear the word" i love you" first personally. Sad to say, because of modernization, the essence of this word just became easy as chewing bubble gum, you can hear and see it anywhere.thanks!!!
