be yourself or pretend..
@jacquelane_does_2 (126)
Philippines
August 23, 2008 1:40am CST
I use to have a friend whom i dont from the start, but i can do nothing because we were neighbors. Ant in the spirit of being neighbors, i helped her in simple ways even if i don't like her.Is it okay to be with her even if i don't like her? Should i pretend?in order not to make problem being neighbors?please share your thoughts about this.thanks.
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4 responses
@repzkoopz (1895)
• Philippines
23 Aug 08
hmm.. i don't think it would be right to pretend just for the sake of being a neighbor. believe me, it shows.. but helping others is a different story, and it is ok (to help) even if you don't like her. it may be small things, but the very act of helping her is a nice gesture. c",)
@jacquelane_does_2 (126)
• Philippines
23 Aug 08
There you are! hehehe yes i do respect your idea. And true, it's not good to pretend. But for me, it's better to do that way than creating trouble, golly,,i don't need problem this time heheheh
@repzkoopz (1895)
• Philippines
24 Aug 08
well.. if she's a friend (at least the way you said it), then i'd suggest fixing the problem. why don't you like her anyway? build up the relationship!.. who knows.. she might just become a very close friend. c",)
@fwangaa (3057)
• China
23 Aug 08
if you don't like piease say no.if you do your things that you don't like to do you will regret,i have do a lot of things that people let me to do that i don't like to do ,so i am so regret today,but if you can change it,you can say safly for you don't to make many fight.just for you
@ashar123 (2357)
• India
23 Aug 08
There are some instances and relations in life where everyone has to compromise. Like you have to compromise over putting a smile on your face and help your neighbor even you don't like her. Same is the case, if you have some close relatives where you have to act and compromise. We have to live in this world. Its good to live peacefully. It would be wrong we fighting and making other people feel bad about us.
@jacquelane_does_2 (126)
• Philippines
23 Aug 08
Yes, i agree, and besides, it would not cost me so much to help or smile at her even if i don't like her. Thanks!
@dhangski (3194)
• Philippines
23 Aug 08
I've always been true to myself. If I pretend to be a good friend to the one that I don't really like, I could say that I'm cheating my self.
@jacquelane_does_2 (126)
• Philippines
23 Aug 08
Thanks, i do respect your thoughts. THanks for dropping by.
