Would you get involved in a gay relationship even when you are straight?
By serenity264
@serenity264 (366)
Philippines
August 23, 2008 4:39am CST
I have a lot of gay friends and some of them even have a lot more good looking boyfriends than I do. But I saw a tv program today and it was asking this question as sort of a survey. now unlike most it was not asked to guys, it was asked to girls. i live in the Philippines and here, people are not as open minded as some other nations, mot still believe in courting for several months nd losing your virginity on your honeymoon.
Now when this question was asked to girls, they had mixed feelings because automatically they thought that the (gay) other girl they were talking about would be a girl who acts like a guy. But then Bi Fems or lesbians who are very much girly yet like both girls and guys are very common although not as accepted as gays.
From my point of view I do not see anything wrong with that, since girls can like like other girls just the same way the guys can like other guys. What do you think I just want your opinion on this... x)
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3 responses
@serenity264 (366)
• Philippines
23 Aug 08
Thanks Humbug25 x).. It's all about respecting other people's preferences I guess... 8)
@Humbug25 (12540)
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23 Aug 08
Wel, yeah, you have to respect other human beings decission to do whatever it is they want to do in life as long as they respect you too. At the end of the day if you have a problem with the way someone wishes to lead their life that is actually your problem not theirs!!
Cheers 
@serenity264 (366)
• Philippines
23 Aug 08
yeah I totally agree with you.. It's just that people seem to forget that it's their life they should worry about and not others hehe... And sometimes people also can't help but criticize others for what they do with their life.. No offense meant to other people who maybe reading this.. :) But most of the times that is the case..
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@lyzabelle (1668)
• Philippines
23 Aug 08
No thanks, not my cup of tea.
I am straight why would i do something stupid
like that? Sorry, for my words. No offense meant
to anyone who do it. I admire other girls but not
to the point that I will enter in to a relationship
with them. That's unacceptable to me.
@serenity264 (366)
• Philippines
23 Aug 08
I understand your point of view as well lyzabelle, I guess we just have different feelings on the topic especially when raised from a conservative society.. Thanks for the response.. I appreciate it... :)
@lucky_witch (2707)
• Philippines
24 Aug 08
I am not against gays, i even have friends who are gay and lesbians. I am not also against the "bi"... But i would rather keep them as friends than have a relationship with them. I also live in the Philippines, and although i may not be that conservative in terms of belief, I would not be in a relationship that I would not keep. To like a girl... I would have her as my best friend. I dont see what advantage would it make to have a relationship with a bi than be friends with them. If she would also likes a boy... what is the sense of being in the relationship.
