love mairrage is good or not
By janaktank
@janaktank (28)
India
August 23, 2008 5:24am CST
as i have to marry a girl to whom i love nut only the thing is that my friends says that is not good to marry a girl with whom we love so please tell me an suggest me what to do ?
thanking you
janak tank
12 responses
@lalaine829 (113)
• Philippines
25 Aug 08
Well, I'm not married yet but I think nothing compares to marrying someone that you love. Love is an important ingredient for any kind of relationship. If you love your girlfriend and she likewise loves you and you're both prepared for a lifetime commitment then I think that would not really be a problem. :-)
@hi1234 (175)
• India
25 Aug 08
Love is the feeling which comes directly from the heart,and,for that feeling you are asking advices from us?Whatever confusion you might be having,its all in the brain.If you carefully listen to your heart,you will hear a deep and firm voice,and as you hear it,it will grow even more louder.thats it just follow that voice.That voice is always true.Whatever advices you get all are for the brain,aven this one,but if you follow this it would be the last advice you will need on any matter.ok.take care.
@anitajayakumar (1202)
• India
25 Aug 08
hi janaktank..
i prefer love marriage only.. you do not need to ask anyone.. it is your life you know about the girl.. you have to decide your life.. you should be together.. enjoy your life with your lover.. keep posting..
take care and have fun..
@aminnagpure (297)
• India
25 Aug 08
your friend is trying to cover up, the truth that he is not getting a girl :)
@jominate (5)
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25 Aug 08
The only reason any of us should marry is for love! But the reality is many marries for religion, cultures and convenience. Maybe what your friends are really saying is its not time for you to marry her yet just because you love her. We all have different definition of love. It maybe that the love you see for this girl is not love for your friends. If your prepared to make a big decision such as married then there is no better time than now to practice good decision making; because you going to have to do a lot of those when you are married. No one should really decide for your future but yourself unless ofcourse you are still under your parents care. Ask your self what is best for you, for her and everyone around you. Goodluck!
@Galena (9110)
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23 Aug 08
well it's pretty stupid to even think of marrying someone you DON'T love.
I would never consider marrying someone I did not love with every part of me, and couldn't imagine living without.
those are pretty big vows, and not vows to take to someone you don't love.
an Oath broken leaves a scar on the soul, and a marriage without love leaves a scar on the life.
@4my1nonly (352)
• Philippines
23 Aug 08
if you really love her, and you know she really loves you too...you don't need anybodies opinion, marriage is good if both of you love each other, and you trust each other...just be faithful to her..^_^
@lixiaos77 (1030)
• Shijiazhuang, China
23 Aug 08
You can ignore your friend's advice. If you love her and her don't love you, you will be taken advantage of by her. This is the reason you friend try to advise you. But if she is a good girl and she love you in her way, you will live a happy life. If you can't be with the girl you love most, it will be a painful regret all your life.