How do you tell her that...
By klaudine
@klaudine (3650)
Indonesia
August 23, 2008 9:09am CST
... you love her, and you appreciate all of her efforts to make things better? I mean, if you saw my previous posts, you would get some clue that my relationship was in the edge of the hill. But she changed, and things getting better day by day. It raised my hope and I believe if things just go like this, we could go through another year.
I love her, and I really want to thank her for her effort for our relationship. When I was really down and I gave up for all things, she kept staying and she said that she could make it happen. She made it...
I wanted to give her something... well.. we're not ready for a marriage if that you want to tell me, but I wanted to give her something... something simple yet meaningful. What do you think about that?
2 responses
@tina2696 (127)
• United States
23 Aug 08
Thats wonderful!!! Glad to hear it and really glad to see you in better spirits. When I want to do something special for my husband I make him a lasagne. Its his favorite and he really appreciates it...he knows he's been a good boy if he gets one. lol Maybe making her favorite meal could work for you too.
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@klaudine (3650)
• Indonesia
24 Aug 08
Well, i am the worst cook... but I will try to cook for her. I believe if I cook it with heart, it wouldn't send her to the hospital to eat the meal i make for her... lol... thank you very much, I love lasagna too, I am being a good one can you make it to me? (or at least you can tell me how to make it 
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@youngsweetheart (772)
• United States
23 Aug 08
I think that's lovely, and I'm glad your relationship is improving - I've been there. Think about her interests, especially if there's something she loves that you're not really into - if you can get her something that has to do with what she loves even if YOU don't love it, that means a lot. At least, that's how it works with me. There was a time my husband would only buy me things HE liked so we could enjoy them together, but that's rather selfish if you do it all the time - the sexiest, most romantic thing he ever did for me was buy me a book and the deluxe edition of Scrabble - which he hates. So whatever you do get for her, focus on what SHE likes. Let's say she likes...musicals. See if you can get her tickets to a live show - she'd love that if she loves musicals.
Steer away from the cliches, like flowers, candy, jewelry - they're nice, but not necessarily appropriate. Jewelry doesn't make me feel appreciated, lol! If she collects anything, find her a new object for her collection. Does she work hard? Get her a day at the spa. There are so many different things you can do, it really depends on her likes and interests. Good luck!
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@klaudine (3650)
• Indonesia
23 Aug 08
Thank you very much. I do appreciate the input you've given me. I really need this, I mean, i never able to give her something that she really likes, because for me her interests is useless and she doesn't need what she really wants. But seeing your comments, maybe I should do that... :)
And again, thank you very much
