why does love have to be so hard?!?!?!

Friend,the path one treads in seeking true love is always slippery and thorny,but more one walks through it with confidence and commitment,one finally meet someone who fulfils all his/her dreams,with gift of love.It needs a great deal of courage,patience and stability of mind,to screen out the genuine from the undesirable ones.The experinces one gains in dating for a reasonably long period helps in taking a matured and wise decision,in building and nurturing further relationship,for better future. Though perfect matching of interest,taste ,habits and attitude is highly improbable,dating helps in making the best choice,anyway,if pursued with the spirit of positive outlook ,open mind and appreciation of true values of life. Have a nice day!!

You can't just want a boyfriend and get a good one, just relax and don't even bother looking, when you tend to look you don't find the best guys due do desperation. You just have to sit back and let good love come to you. With the love I have now, I never expected it to come in a million years but it did and it was not anticipated at all, it was just a surprise haha. You have to learn to just take it as it comes and leave your heart open, though you have to make sure you have good judgment and don't let anyone come along and take your heart. You have to find a new confidence in yourself as well if you don't want to be treated like a dog... I used to be weak and let guys walk all over me, but I swore that would never happen again and now in the relationship I have I am more independent and my boyfriend and I have equality and great understanding with each other, we never argue, and everything is just wonderful. Don't worry about it, love will come to you whether you like it or not, but don't go searching for it. Good luck, happy mylotting, and also have a great day or night!