Is 23rd age is the perfect age to get marry..?
By Suresh. Y
@suresh747 (44)
Davanagere, India
August 23, 2008 1:33pm CST
Hi i'm Surya, i'm 23 and i don't know i just eager to get marry. Is it attraction of my teenage or something else i don't know. However please let me know your openions.
7 responses
@GloomCookieLex (6073)
• United States
23 Aug 08
There is no "perfect age to marry". You get married whenever you've found someone, you're ready and it feels right for you. I got married at 21.
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@suresh747 (44)
• Davanagere, India
23 Aug 08
Yes you're right but i heard that after marriage we lost our freedom is it right or wrong? Don't mind you're married na so asking..
@GloomCookieLex (6073)
• United States
23 Aug 08
Marriage is only what you make of it. I lost nothing when I got married.
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@srini33333 (710)
• India
27 Aug 08
it depnds on country and the attitude of t person concernd...23 is or maybe t corrct age tooo....but 4some it maybe yng tooo...it all depnds
@Galena (9110)
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23 Aug 08
I would think that for MOST people, 23 is a bit on the young side to get married.
there are some who are mature enough, and sure enough of their relationships, but people grow and change a lot in their 20s, and if you'd been in a relationship long enough to be looking at marriage at that age, then the chances are that the two of you would change a lot from when you first met in that time, and still have a lot of changing to do.
I would think that most people should be at least in their later 20s, and in a relationship of about 5 years or so before considering it.
there are exceptions, and each individual relationship needs to be taken on its own merits.
but in most cases, 23 is a bit on the young side.
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@joliefille (3690)
• Philippines
27 Aug 08
I agree. At 23 I was still trying to find work that pays well enough for me to survive on my own. I didn't have any serious relationship at the time and for good reason too. 2 months after my 23rd birthday, I went to another big city to find work. I noticed this pattern of marrying at the age of 23 with my boyfriend's friends. He's in Halifax. Apparently this may be a cultural thing, who knows.
@Willowlady (10658)
• United States
25 Aug 08
Different cultures do different things in the way of dating and marriage so I am not sure of what you follow. In America many folks get married too young and do not work and develop a life first. Find out what they like, feel some accomplishment etc. Then others do not marry at all so lose all the benefits of a legal marriage when things go wrong in a relationship.
Our thinking minds can handle living our lives til opportunity meets fate and the realtionship begins that fills the rest of our lives. Good luck in your situation.
@suresh747 (44)
• Davanagere, India
23 Aug 08
Why you thinking that 27 is the perfect age to get marry?
@SCORPIONTKM (24)
• India
23 Aug 08
23 -25 is the perfect age for a girl to marry.It would be better if you could stand on your own feet,i meant getting a job.Marriage can wait
@suresh747 (44)
• Davanagere, India
23 Aug 08
Yes i do agree with you my friend. I'm already in good job so thinking to get marry.
