the one who loves you or the one you love?

I have been there before and had to choice between a guy i was madly in love with or a guy that I loved but was IN LOVE with him! And yes it is sad to say that I went with the second option..... The second option gave me security and good sense of the future where the other one was just all full of dreams and I'm sorry dreams don't come true and when you have 3 kids to raise by yourself they have to come first and now we have a great life, we have build a beautiful home and the kids are very happy and yes i still think of the other guy all the time but my kids are stable now and thats all that counts to me!

I think its wise to choose the one who loves us rather than the one whom we love. Our life can be better with the one who loves us. We should just pray God that both must be the same. Hehe. All the best.

I don't want to make a decision like this in my life, it scares me. I don't want to choose coz I might end up choosing the wrong one. Well, if I really have to, I will choose the one who loves me because I know that the right time will come when i will be able to learn to love him back... Actually, the decision varies from one person to another. For me, I know myself so much and I know that it's easier teaching myself to love someone than teaching someone to love me the way I want him to.

Reality is that people try to get the one they love and if they fail to get, go for the one who loves!