After the break up: Still friends? or I'm better off without you?
By majestry
@majestry (41)
August 24, 2008 3:27pm CST
Some people would still want to be friends with the person they've loved but some say that love and friendship can never come along both at the same time. It is either you truly loved that person or you never really did...
5 responses
@n30wing (4767)
• Philippines
25 Aug 08
Well it's big no no for me. Cause it's not easy to move on. Well if the wounds healed maybe yes, but not as close anymore.Cause I never want to go back talking about the pass, pass is pass so be it. Another thing is I just don't want her to think that I still do like her,that simple! Have a nice day!
@bamba560 (23)
• Philippines
26 Aug 08
well it really depends on how it ended with your lover. when you end your relationship in good terms then i would say that their could ba a possibility that you could be friends with your ex, but if the relationship in a not so good way then it's "let not meet in the near future" kind.
@dementia88 (900)
• United States
24 Aug 08
i have stayed friends with about 4 of my ex boyfriends, just because we didnt work out as a couple, doesnt mean we cant be friends.
@swennerholm (664)
• Sweden
24 Aug 08
My ex is my friend now we been good friend since we broke up but some of my ex i dont like them or make friend with them because they hurt me and they dont desert for friendship 
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@lipsticknladdles (814)
• Philippines
24 Aug 08
Immediately right after the break-up, it is not reasonable to stay friends. There are wounds to heal and a whole lot moving on to do. Being in constant contact with your ex, will not help at all. But then, when you are both healed, no more bitterness, no more flame either, maybe you can manage to be friends. After all, you created wonderful memories together when you were still a couple and you became a significant part of each others' lives, so i dont see anything wrong with that.
