friendly crush? will it be necessary?

if you want to tell him, go ahead. Just be ready for the consequences. he might become happy about it or he may not. I am a guy and I dont see thare is anything wrong with that. He should take it as a compliment. Good luck, i hope you settled that soon.

hello there potchie24, i hope you're having a great day. It is a natural thing to admire people, most especially your bestfriend. I dont see anything wrong with that. If I am this young man that you have your crush on, I will be flattered if I find out. I will never ever take that against her. What do you expect to happen if you tell him? Do you want him to feel the same? Or you just want it all out of your chest? Not everytime, but most of the time platonic friendships wont work. The tendency for the other to fall deeply is always a high risk. Maybe you can talk to your other girlfriends about this. The more advice you get, the better. And if ever, you decided to tell him and he ignores you, he might not be as good as you think. Go find another friend and go find another person to admire. Good luck!

it depends on the level of comfort. believe me many relationship starts with friendship.when best friends become lovers, its the best way. there is alredy the level of comfort. try to see whether he also have same feelings. then tell him. also if you do not tell him, he will never know

I don't think their is something wrong with a crush or an infantuation. I been there but still their is a feeling of hesitant. I still believe that if it's really meant to happen so be it. I will just let it flow and let me make her feel that I like her. I rather play it safe I think. Well if I found out that my bestfriend has a crush on me, I don't think something wrong with that,what are friends for right, maybe if I like I her it's cool feeling great, but if not I'll still be a friend and go on with the friendship. Why cause you can't tell what's lies in the future you can't tell your destiny.Take your time if you really like her/him, patience is a virtue hahaha! But I won't expect anything cause I just don't wanna feel hurt. Have a nice day!

Hi well it happen and i tell them and tell them i am going to flirt with them and sure will try to seduce them LOL Go for it, if u dont have BF

Hi friend,This happens sometimes when we like our friends attitude,looks and behaviour.Thats normal and this feeling will remain for sometime and would disappear anytime.If I were in such a situation I would just relish watching his attitude and behaviour and would not tell it out.thanks for sharing.happy mylotting.

i was in that situation before, i told my friend how i felt. it kinda just slipped out after he broke up with his g.f. we ended up going together and even though we didnt make it as a couple we are still friends today and that was over 10 years ago. so i would just be honest

If i were you, i just tell him that you fell with him, i don't think it will crash on a relationships, if he is really your bestfriends and have mature enough personality, i decide to do this tough rather than hurting myself if someday he is with another girl .... just think about that ... maybe he has the same feeling about you ..

Well friends between girl and a guy is only due to physical attraction case !