r u the one.........?

I've had many issues with people and relationships in my life..thankfully the past and not the present. I use to give, give and give until I felt like I was giving everything and only receiving when it was conventient for them. Since then I've learned that relationships should be a balance of give and take. It's funny but in my situations if was always family that I had issues with. They wanted only me to maintain the relationship...it was me who should've constantly called them, it was me who should've gone to see them. Well I'm sorry but it's a two way street. You can't expect someone to put forth all of the effort while you just sit back and do nothing. A person needs confirmation in that relationship..and silence just doesn't cut it.

Hi friend,I always maintain a good relation among friends and relatives.When we maintain a good relation naturally everyone has to go along well with us.thanks for sharing.happy mylotting.

Hi there, That was a peculiar question!Whether any body wants or not why would we behave in an improper manner?I dont think i would like to behave improperly if the other person has given me the freedom to do it.But one more quality in me is that i do not like to keep unneccesary relationships.If a relation bothers me or is forced on me than i generally stay away from them or if its in my hand i generally break them up.You dont keep trash along with you.Right?

I always try to keep good relations with my friends and relations and most of the time they do cooperate but sometimes i find that there is no response. I do not blame them becoz in the lives that we lead today people have no time for each other,and even for their family members and friends.This is because our lives have become mechanical in nature.

im usually good about keeping up with friends and relatives on like birthdays and etc but i have been horrible at it the last year or so lol..