have you ever not believed your other?
By jhl930
@jhl930 (3601)
United States
August 25, 2008 6:10pm CST
i know that there are a few times with the girl that i am in the relationship with that i have had problems believing what she said because it was a little out there like one night she didn't pick up her phone for hours until around 1 am or so and i was worried about her and then when she did pick it up she said that she had been at wal mart trying on bathing suits until like 12 and she turned her ringer off because when she was taking a picture with her cell phone it would make a noise or something like that, i believed her after awhile though, so what about all of you, have you ever thought that your others stories were a little fishy? thanks for taking the time out of your day to read and hopefully reply to my discussion, i hope that you all have a great evening and night and the rest of your week is really good as well...thanks!
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@vinesh_kcm (453)
• India
26 Aug 08
this thing didnt happen in my relationship. since there is a good interaction between both of us.. but nowadays i can notice such things as very common. some of my friends had breakup because of this reason.. ot is not a good sign for a healthy relationship
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@vinesh_kcm (453)
• India
26 Aug 08
it may affect the future of the relationship
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@Humbug25 (12540)
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26 Aug 08
Hello jhl930
Well I don't think my husband ever lied to me because if I didn't like hearing what he said then that would have been just tough but I do have a true story to share with you that I am sure my husband didn't believe. Well my son was about 2 years old and his level of speach wasn't that high, like most 2 years old. He had a fear of men at that age too. I went to my friends house and her husband walked in and my son jumped up onto the chair beside and in his fear he bit my neck. When I got home my son looked at his daddy and said 'John bit mummy'. I stood with my mouth wide open in shock as my husband looked at my neck which then looked like someone had sucked my neck. I never tried to explain what had happened fully because I don't think he would have ever believed me!!
@sang2k2 (1833)
• India
26 Aug 08
i think she atleast deserves so much of space in a relation see at times these things can really prove genuine but if these things are repeated very often than u shud start thinking about it....atleast im glad that she gave u a reason for not lifting the call. i have seen a few men n women who dont even feel like giving a reason for not lifting the call which i at times find it insane one needs to rationalise his/her actions.....
these things they tend to happen....
take care of her n urs as well./
@dont_pick_your_nose (2279)
• Australia
26 Aug 08
look that sounds sketchy to me too. I wouldn't really believe that either if i was you, then again if i was going to make up an excuse i know it would have been better than that so maybe she is telling the truth. All relationships need trust, i know that is easier said then done, i hate the feeling of anixety, jealousy and i hate being played like a game. I know it's probably not the not the right thing to do but if i feel the trust is gone then so am i, it does my head in when i try to ignore it.
@sweetierook (311)
• United States
26 Aug 08
You should try to believe until you have reason NOT to believe. What I mean is if you have no proof other than a bad story and being jealous, you should give her the bennifit of the doubt. If she is telling you the truth and you end the relationship because you are going psycho over somthing so silly, wouldn't that be a shame? Then again, if it was a lie and there was somthing more, you will know it in time. People that lie do it all the time. Have faith that she is being honest with you and try to enjoy what you have. Fighting and accusing and jealousy will surely ruin a good relationship.
