is flirting a skill....^__^

By "means to an end" I mean the person flirting gets the one they are flirting with to do what they want...whether it's a relationship entered into or a casual fling.

I agree that some are playfully with their flirting. I'm not sure how you could use it as a means to an end.? And yes there are a lot of people that just don't have a clue what they are doing. Thanks for the comment........;-)

Not always. It can be just flirting.

LOL just my 2 cents I never learn how to flirt and I don't know if I am a flirt naturally either never pay much attention to that before although I have met some natural flirts drove girls crazy while they are just manipulating them

OMG, your right. There are so many men that flirt with girls, and manipulate them. And it happens before girls even know it.

So, a natural flirt isn't always good looking or wealthy. But they are smooth while flirting. For all other get a job, and a make over. That is so funny.

So true, Sister Walk! Charm is definitely key!!

But men who only want to flirt, can't be wrapped. If you only flirting then men know the difference. And the stay a distance. I do agree with woman need to know the difference in flirting and being s1utty. We need to know what charm is......;-))

Well, we have the charm.

Well Picasso !I think that the southern woman do flirt best. You know, I'm Southern also. Born in Tennessee. And very good at flirting I must say. It would be quit funny if there was a flirting class. Wouldn't it.

You're from Tennessee!! I love it!! No wonder I'm attracted to you! We do have that flirting thing down, don't we? Seems to be something in the genes, dontcha think? Flirting class sounds perfect!! We could share dual professorships! But we'd have to get Angelwhispers in with us, darlin, because she's tops in her field when it comes to flirting, trust me on this one. In fact, she did a discussion a while back about southern women being the best flirts. And this one brought that one back to me, and it was so much fun, as this one is. Wow, it just kills me that you're from Tennessee, swear to god. That is just too cool. We Tennessee women will flirt with anyone, man, woman, old, older, young too of course. We're just born to it! So nice to have another Southern flirt among us, especially one from the Great State of Tennessee!!!!!!

Hey Nova, Sorry I just got back to your message. It is great that we're both from the same state. Your right about the flirting thing. We will flirt with any age. Why is that. Right now I find I'm attracted to younger guys. Not that I want them or any thing, I just like to flirt with them. I work with this one guy, we have been flirting around for 2 years. We're both married. Nothing will ever happen and we both no that. He was trying to flirt today and I wouldn't play. He told me, " fine I'll just stop and not flirt any more, and then you'll miss it ". I just told him that he'd be back, he always comes back. I think he's addicted to flirting with me. He tries to stop, and he does for a month or so and he always comes back. Ever had anyone like that? We kinda of tease each other. Because we both know we can't have each other, but we flirt, and talk dirty back and forth........... He's only two yeays younger than me.

Maybe that's why I'm so good at it. I think I may even be getting a little better. I trying to learn to have a little mystery to me. When your flirting, for some reason guys like that. Or at least it makes them come back. Don't you think. Nova says southern woman are best at flirting also.

Wander if the people in the magazines know what there talking about. Sounds good to me though. I guess if your good at flirting you are.

agreeable Thanks.!...;-)

Hey Opal, That sounds so right. I never thought of it as skill that comes natural. Everything you said is true. Thanks.......