wen u know ur partner is nt so expressive
@blackeyedpeas (445)
India
August 26, 2008 5:13am CST
hey ..i hav been into a relationship from past 1 year ..m very happy in this relationship n m very expressive about my feelings to my partner..n hez not so expressive.. at times wen he is very happy or emotional ..he share his feelings ..i dnt knw if this is with most of the guys ..or may be i am more expressive thn him ..dats y i feel so ..sumtimes negative things cumes to me mind ..like my b he dnt feel anything ..m confused ..wat u ppl think????
2 responses
@ardenilia (21)
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26 Aug 08
Hye there...i really could relate to your situation bcoz my fiancee is definitely not that expressive type either. and i had even dubbed him 'mechanical' in the earlier stages of our r/ship xD (luckily he admit it himself)
it's alright. most men are naturally not expressive when it comes to feelings. they are not verbal beings like us girls but guys' emotions can be read through his 'body language'.
girls would definitely love to hear those three little words from our bfs but sometimes their male ego gets in the way xD they prefer to tell it indirectly.
don't be insecure when you see that glint in his eyes when he's looking at you.
don't be afraid when he's holding your hands when you're walking together
don't be less confident because you would definitely be the one he talks about when he's with his friends.
because he loves you and sometimes, only his guy friends know how deeply he cares about you.
you could try to u/stand the signals he's been giving in his eyes, smile, his voice and how attentive he is whenever he is with you because you're all that matters.
i'll be praying for your happiness too!!
@todwalrohit (116)
• India
26 Aug 08
hey,
dont worry,
it happens with few boyz, some boyz arent so expressive.
let me explain you my friend's example:
my married friend have not tell "I LOVE YOU" to his wife in their past 5 yrs of life.
so dont worry, you have to be very careful to catch his feeling and understand him.
and try to talk to him directly regarding this.
BEST WISHES!!!