have you ever said this

Ya I have thought that way so many times. They are not that bad. But its not easy for everyone to mingle with them. They are very much different. Good in their own way. Hehe. So I just got used to it and learned to love them also. Going on pretty well.

It seems somewhat more painful when relatives can be hurtful to us. I think it's because they're a part of the family we automatically assume that they have unconditional love for us. That just isn't always the case. No one is perfect, people make mistakes and more often than not they'll say the wrong thing. We can't expect them to be perfect just because they've always been in our life. The only thing you can really do is communicate with them and tell them how you're feeling. If they're willing to listen to you then they should be able to understand where you're coming from. It's difficult to deal with family issues like that because it's family. You have high expectations from them and when they do something wrong it's a huge disappointment.

I say its not relatives only major of the people minds is to comment and critics badly or unwantedely on others. And in circle if it knows to the right person then they always keep their eyes and heads down. But really it has become habit for some of the people to speak on our back and sweet before us. I believe and respect on people who are true and care for us and the words from these persons are to be dumped in garbage