Do you actually hate SOMEBODY????
By Miguel Z.
@habichuelo (3100)
United States
August 26, 2008 10:53am CST
i know hate its bad but who do you hate at this moment?
i do hate my next door neightbor,,,he's always looking when im coming or leaving the house,,,he talks loud about myself things that are not true,,,he tried and keep trying to put the other neightbors against me... once few weeks ago he invited me to fight,,i didnt because im trying to get into the ARMY and there where people looking ,,,someone could called the police and "GOODBYE ARMY" for me...
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28 responses
@limcyjain (3516)
• India
26 Aug 08
Yes i do hate my mother in law greatly. She is a woman who is always on a prowl to create havoc in my life. Treats my children badly and is a woman whom almost everybody around avoids to talk to. Infact my husband sometime feels that may be he is not their son and an adopted one. Life would have been much much more beautiful without this woman,
@dementia88 (900)
• United States
26 Aug 08
yes there are a couple of people i hate right now. this person has made my life a hell at sometimes and others nothing, but the bad out weighs the good always in life.
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@travibabiesgirl (1690)
• United States
26 Aug 08
It is not good to hate someone. It festers inside you and eventually eats you up. Be the bigger person and let it go. You will feel better for it. Good luck to you on getting into the army. If that is what you truly want then don't do something to ruin your chances.
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@shontia08 (846)
• United States
26 Aug 08
well years back when i was a teen i use to hate people, sometimes for no reason at all. now that i'm grown and i'm just realizing this, when i asked myself that question, that i don't hate anyone anymore. don't get me wrong i hate people actions sometimes, but it haven't gotten to that point were i actually hate them.
@johansur (197)
• Indonesia
26 Aug 08
Oh... so scary. It same like me but not be serious like that. If he want to keep trying to put other neightbour against you, ask other to see that you not like that. Make it like 1 VS 10 it mean what is your neightbor said will not hear by other. And they will see you is good people :)
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@rogue13xmen13 (14403)
• United States
26 Aug 08
You can never really hate someone, you just hate the things that they do. See, I do not like my mother's boyfriend's actions, but I do not really hate him.
@rogue13xmen13 (14403)
• United States
28 Aug 08
Okay, my mother has a boyfriend who tends to treat people like dirt. I do not like those actions of his, but deep down, I know that he has the potential for good, he just have to learn to commit better actions.
@shana123 (2095)
• India
27 Aug 08
I dont hate anybody just like that but i dont like the character in them, simply its like that yes i sometimes really hate the person's character and if im not even able to control myself i just forgive and move away from them, sometimes i cannot control my feelings i just tell them they are irritating if that is not helping me i just hold my nerves and feeling till im with them..
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@o2bnocn (2992)
• United States
26 Aug 08
yes there is someone how I hate. I know it's wrong but I can't help it. After a couple of years the hate is slowly going away but I will never like or speak to that person unless I absolutely have to. It's a long story but let's just say the guy is a jerk that lies to everyone, he will take money from everyone (even stole from his parents) and LOVES TO ARGUE. He is just a jerk all around. Hardly nobody likes him. I really do think he needs help, and help right away. His family has even tried to get him help but he won't take it or go get help. He is selfish also, probably one of the most selfish people I have ever met, if not the most.
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@rustantl (258)
• United States
27 Aug 08
I think Hate is a very strong word but it was created for a reason...I never thought I could hate anyone until I was betrayed very badly buy someone that was suppose to be my friend and I had given all my trust to...that really hurts in a way it's hard not to hate someone when they put you through hell then sent you back...making have the worst feeling in the pit of your stomach for days...So, yeah I guess is safe to say I hate someone right now!
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@acevivx (1566)
• Philippines
27 Aug 08
The word hate is too strong and i don't really believe that it is a very common thing to hate someone. That person must have done something so evil or damaging and hurting for him to be hated. While I know several people who have really gone out of their way to hurt and undermine my reputation or my relationship with other people, and while at that time i felt so mad about it and at that moment could have killed the person concerned, after I have vented out my anger and hurt, I usually end up not really hating the person but maybe disliking him/her. So in response to your question i do not actually hate anybody but have felt an emotion very like hate which didn't last for long.
@kuboro (2)
• Canada
27 Aug 08
i believe i hate someone but I'm not really sure, i mean if i actually met him face to face i know i would do my best to cause him some serious physical harm.
It's a guy that doesn't seem to understand that my girlfriend is taken, that im dating her, but I'm not going to stop her from talking to him, I'm just going to show him the difference between 5'11 220lbs and 5'6 150lbs if we ever meet =]
@thebohemianheart (8827)
• United States
27 Aug 08
I used to think I hated some people. As I got older, I realized it just takes too much energy to actually hate someone. I may not like their actions, I may not like their attitudes, I may not like the person at all, but I just don't hate anyone anymore. It is not worth my health to get that upset about someone else's actions.
@cishi1230 (197)
• Philippines
27 Aug 08
i hate the siblings of my father for mistreating my mother...they're a bunch of backstabber!
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@SomeCowgirl (32191)
• United States
27 Aug 08
I do not hate anyone right now and try not to hate anyone. I can understand where that guy could be someone you strongly dislike, or even hate though. Have you tried talking to him to ask him why he acts that way about you? Maybe he could give you some insight. Most times it's jealousy that causes someone to try to ruin you, either that or envy. What does your neighbor do for a living, do you know? If it's a lesser paying job and one that could be considered stressful then chances are he is very envious of you.
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@hayashane27 (153)
• Philippines
27 Aug 08
When i learned that we were left by my father for another woman, i hated him for doing so. I even experienced being able to feel indifferent with men. At first, i hated him for running away from my mother and not taking care of the finances since he is spending it with his mistress. I hated him for not being able to act as a real father for me and my sister. I hated him because i never experience how it is to have a father in my entire life.
Yet, as I grow up maturely, and with spiritual life growing deep, i realise that having that feeling would only worsen my life. It will cause me a lot of hang ups that i couldn't move on anymore. I just thought of it this way, that my father is a BIG Loser for abandoning his family especially his two daughters. I wonder how it is when he reaches his old age with no one to turn to. I wonder how would he be, when his mistress would die before him and no one would take care of him already. I wonder if he is genuinely HAPPY and would say that he has lived his life to the fullest. I wonder when is the time for him to come to us and say "Forgive Me for i Have Done Wrong". I wonder when would God give my mom and us JUSTICE to what my father and his mistress have done to us. I just wondered and i will keep on praying that everything will fall into its right place in God's time. In the end, i'll always wait for my father's come back.
@RevSkull (271)
• Tokelau
28 Aug 08
Actually, I hate most people...it is part of my charm as a curmudgeon. If you become my friend I first go from hating you to tolerating you. If you become a good friend, then I may start liking you. If you stay a good friend for a very long time, then I may start to love you.
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@corngrass (727)
• Malaysia
27 Aug 08
Well, i don't really know my neighbor, but we do smile to each other when we meet outside thereat the front gate. Someone i hate? In fact, i never hate anyone in my life (from what i remember), i do dislike some people but not hate. Maybe because i haven't meet one yet. Lol! Anyway, the best way to make someone more angry than they are now is to pretend to be 'silly'. What i mean is whenever your neighbor try to say bad word in front of you, don't pull your face in front of him, try to give him a big wide smile, and I'm sure he will shut his mouth immediately. Try that and let me know =)
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@skenthal (1020)
• Turkey
26 Aug 08
yeah i hate , i almost hate all my teachers in the university except some of them i study law in the university and i know its hard profession , but some of them failed me even though i studied hard for their exams anyway its over now but i still hate them , anyway happy mylottings
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@jhellie_baby (374)
• Philippines
27 Aug 08
i hated somebody too. i didnt like her attitude, not towards me but to other people. i never talk to her. not a bit. and never will i.