why people stuck to the Past?!
By hichamov
@hichamov (507)
Morocco
August 26, 2008 6:47pm CST
I alway wonder, why people stuck and keep thinking about the past...
i think because of that there is a lot who Suffer and dispair , even if he/she can going through what's happened and seeing the life with another view, optimistic is the whole thing, there is a quote which say : We Draw lessons from the past but we don't have to live in and with it.
it's so true, thinking to the past is good, but think to the good moments you had and not the bad things.
what do you think?!
2 responses
@cindystoufflet (299)
• United States
27 Aug 08
I believe this totally. People who blame their past as an excuse for how they are now is a poor excuse. Everyone out there needs to realize that there is someone out there with a worst life than yours. The thing is to learn and not repeat so that your kids don't have the same life you had. Don't get me wrong remembering the past is good but reliving it over and over is detremental to your health. Always remember to look for somthing good out of every situation. Like i broke my ankle at work and was out of work being a single parent it got tough but because i was out of work I met my now husband. My advise is move on but never forget.
@hichamov (507)
• Morocco
27 Aug 08
yeah, i agree with you, and i didn't got ya wrong, because the way you think i think to also ;) we don't know what's gona happen after a bad situation But we keep the smile, we go through , step by step and there is always a Good thing which gona make our life better :) Patience all is about Patience.
Thank you for the Answer :)
@hinkerbell (522)
• United States
27 Aug 08
there was a quote a stumbled across one day and it said ppl say the reason why they like the past is cuz they see it better than it was teh future less resolved then it will b and teh present worse off
