what if someone told you this how would take it ?
By syankee525
@syankee525 (6261)
United States
August 26, 2008 8:04pm CST
here is the story, to fil in how i am with family and friends. i am a hugger, i hug my family and freinds. adults and kids.
my neice on my wife side, we became closer. talked either on the phone or im. we both share the same birthday. when i see her i give her a hug openly in front of everyone.
well her and my daughter got into a aurgment, then one day at my in law's house her mom (my sister in law) came to me and said her daughter was unclomfortable with me giving her a hug. so i was pretty much ok i am sorry she feels that way i will stop giving her hugs. i don't like anyone to feel uncomfortable with me.
so my sister in law got all mad at me started to yell. telling if i talked to her daughter im, email, text, call or look at her she will call the cops on me. so i wasn't upset yet.. i was like are you kidding me ? i haven't done anything nor will i.
here it is., she looked at me and said" well i need to do this just in case something does happen"
yeah i lost it, i asked her so you think i would try something with my own neice are F*** kidding me ?
she repeated it again, and then went and said the same thing to my wife. and my wife asked her, do you think he would do anything? we all know how is about people who hurt kids... her sister looked at her and said no but i need to do this just in case if something does happen...
now i am the kind of person, if someone hurts any kid in my family or my friends kids i would hurt someone really bad.
how would take this if someone said this to you ?
my and my wife thing is she meant what she said that she think i would or might try to do something with my 15 yr old neice..
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2 responses
@TheHawkBat (669)
• United States
27 Aug 08
Oh wow, I would also check with someone who knows about law on this just in case. That is really crazy, and I am sorry you have to go through this. It sounds like you should follow the other persons advice and just avoid all contact with them, and even though you aren't in the wrong it sounds like, let this go. People do crazy stuff, and sometimes it sucks, but there is nothing that can be done about it...
@syankee525 (6261)
• United States
27 Aug 08
yeah i did talk to a cop about this. but one good thing he said if i had gotten locked up he would be by side how i am with his daughter, then i had the cheif of emt in the town i live too and like 200 other people as well to go court with me if it went that far..
@abigailcherry (92)
• United States
5 Sep 08
You sound like a nice person, and I do not want to make any judgments. However, there are people in this world who would do something inappropriate with their niece and even their own children. And a lot of times these days, that kind of thing begins with phone calls and Instant messages and things. I am sure you are very angry with your sister-in-law for how she treated you, but it seems that for some reason, her daughter felt that you were someone she is afraid of in a way. I'm sure she was just trying to protect her daughter and come right out to let you know where she stands. She completely handled it wrong, and I am sorry that you had to go through that. These days, though, you have to realize that a lot flirting and relationships begin online through IM and chat rooms and emails, even text messaging, so for you to have been contacting a 15 year old in those ways was maybe not the best decision. I would definitely say that you should stay away from the niece, especially online.
