What do you do when you are down?
By falassion
@falassion (419)
Brazil
August 26, 2008 9:48pm CST
I just received some news that made me feel kinda.. down.
Also, with all this "down thing", I just remembered about a girl that I loved, and then I felt kinda lonely and even worse than I was.. I know, kinda silly, but I felt like I should try posting it here..
So, myLot friends, what do you do when you're down (to get better, I mean)?
Believe me, your answers will be VERY welcome to me.. =/
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8 responses
@falassion (419)
• Brazil
27 Aug 08
Yeah, I know she's not the only girl in the world, but now it kind of means so much for me, you know..? And, when some problems are put together, they seem bigger, and that's how I'm feeling in the exact moment.. =/
But, thank you very much for your comment!
Hope you feel better!@falassion (419)
• Brazil
27 Aug 08
Yeah, I'm trying to keep myself busy here in myLot, 'cause it's kinda late to go out now (00:17 here), 'cause I have to work tomorrow.. And about the "contemplating method", I'll surely try it later, when I get a little more sleepy.. Then I combine'em and maybe get a better sleep.
Thank you very much for your comment!
@falassion (419)
• Brazil
27 Aug 08
Yeah, being alone is what I try to do usually, but it doesn't worked very well.. I just get more sad, I think..
Today, before sleeping, I'll make some reflections. Home I reach some conclusions..
Thnk you very much for posting!
@falassion (419)
• Brazil
27 Aug 08
Mainly, it's not about the girl, you know.. The other problems reminded me about her, and this made me feel lonely.
But. What kind of music do you listen when you're down?
Thank you very much for your comment!
@falassion (419)
• Brazil
27 Aug 08
Yeah, doing something with my friends would be nice.. But you know, it's hard to arrange something during the week, 'cause most of the people work (like me) and study (like me), and then the free times of each other doesn't match.. =/
But thank you very much for answering!
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@falassion (419)
• Brazil
27 Aug 08
Well, it's VERY hard for me to cry, you know.. It's VERY rare.. I really would like to be more "emotional" (in this aspect, at least), but I just can't..
But one thing is true: the bad moments makes you enjoy more the good moments. =)
Thank you ver much for your comment!
@hellcowboy (7374)
• United States
28 Aug 08
I know there are times where all of us receive news that makes us feel kind of down and out,and usually when I feel down I turn to my fiance and she always manages to make me laugh and feel better,I also try and play video games,because there is nothing like slaughtering enemies to help the spirits rise,and me and my fiance also try to hang out with our friends from time to time when one of us are down,because sometimes if you are down it helps to get out of the house.
@hellcowboy (7374)
• United States
30 Aug 08
You are very welcome for the response my friend and I hope you do find ways to cope when you are down in the dumps,have a great day,good luck in your life,and Happy Posting.
@falassion (419)
• Brazil
28 Aug 08
Yeah, I think that the "cure" to the sadness is being with who you love. A pity that I couldn't do that yesterday..
About playing videogames, may be a good alternative. I also thought that reading a book or something similar may make me feel better also..
Thanks for your answer!
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@cottonm (753)
• Malaysia
27 Aug 08
i understand this kinda feelings ^_^ when i had it, i will try 2 go out with my friends and hav a nice chat, or go 2 karaoke to 'sing' it all out ^_^ when u r down, don't stay at home, go 2 find some activities to participate, if u stay at home, especially alone, u will feel more down ^_^ this is what i normally do, hope your 'down' time won't b so often ^_^
@cottonm (753)
• Malaysia
27 Aug 08
hmmm, when there is no friend around, i will still go out 2 hav a nice cup of coffee, or 2 watch a comedy etc ^_^ there is a phrase someone told me : life is a choice, depends on whether u choose to b happy or to b sad
so, i choose to make myself happy, it's hard, but doesn't mean that it can't b reach ^_^
so, b happy always ^_^
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@falassion (419)
• Brazil
27 Aug 08
Hmm.. Going out by myself.. Yeah, this can be interesting.. At least I'll be in a different place, with different people around.. And it always worth trying, I think. =)
And it's a very meaningful phrase the one you just quoted.. A pity that, sometimes, our happiness doesn't depends only on us.. =/
Even though, I think that, if we really want to, we can achieve it. =)
Thank you for your kind words, cottonm. ^^
@falassion (419)
• Brazil
27 Aug 08
Oh, I asked you to come over, and then you came! :D
Yeah, I kinda know from my past experiences that staying all alone isn't that nice.. But the problem is when you don't have a friend around when this kind of thing happen, which was what happened yesterday.. Kinda sad, I'd say. =/
Thank you very much for posting! ^^
