im Older than my Boyfriend
@cuttie_johanna (33)
Philippines
11 responses
@joyadalia (1408)
• Philippines
27 Aug 08
That is perfectly alright as long as you both love each other then age will really not matter. You should not feel that way in such an early phase in your relationship as later on that will drag the love down and make you feel more and more the age gap between the two of you .
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@cuttie_johanna (33)
• Philippines
6 Sep 08
wow!!that was really inspiring.Im now enjoying his company,though there were times i have to be more uderstanding to him.
@dementia88 (900)
• United States
27 Aug 08
im 3 years older then my husband..and we are good. but i dont feel like his sister, thats kinda weird???
@cuttie_johanna (33)
• Philippines
27 Aug 08
he has older sister who's age is like mine...so it was a little bit wierd for me...
@n30wing (4767)
• Philippines
27 Aug 08
My girlfriend is older then me still it has been almost two years now, and I really don't care what people say,as long as we have us. Age is just in the mind. As long as we do accept each other for what we are and for what were gonna be,even our mistakes and faults. I will be with her and would like to spend my life with her forever. Real love is hard to find and find real love with her. Anyway have a nice day! We make our own life,and we make our own choices. In love everything will work out fine when you really love that person. It doesn't have boundaries. It conquers all. Age is just numbers it's how you handle it. You can if you want too! It's better to be in love feeling it and not feeling love at all. It's not only in this kind of relationship. Anyway have a nice day!
@cuttie_johanna (33)
• Philippines
27 Aug 08
wow!that was really inspiring.Thank you for your opinion.
@magojordan (3252)
• Philippines
27 Aug 08
I wish you all the best. I agree that age doesn't matter but I would say that maturity does. I think that if you're both mature to face problems that would arise in your relationship, everything would be just fine.
@cuttie_johanna (33)
• Philippines
27 Aug 08
there was one time we had a misunderstanding about this PSP thing when his dad refused to buy him a PSP,he texted and told me everything.You can even see from his text messages that he was really mad,upset whatsoever.AS his girlfriend,i was trying to give him this advice which i thought would make him feel better,i texted " maybe its not yet time for you to have this thing,why dont you do something that will make your dad think that your deserving to have a PSP,try to get a high grade or something..".
he replied saying "its like your saying that i would never ever gonna have a PSP if i dont work hard"
.i didnt get him,so i change the topic...
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@nizhama2 (295)
• Malaysia
27 Aug 08
Age is nothing, it's just what people write on the paper. I think you heard about this before. My opinion is three years is not a problem. Just don't get bothered what people, they always say, anything... So just ignore what people say and go on... Just a little advice, if you want to be serious, get married as soon as you can.
@cuttie_johanna (33)
• Philippines
27 Aug 08
thank you for your opinio...but he's too young to get married...heheheh...me too ofcourse!!
@rsa101 (38148)
• Philippines
27 Aug 08
I think it will depend to you and your BF. If you enjoy each other's company then age doesn't really matters. There are cases wherein the relationship fails because of how compatible they are with each other its not really about their age difference that really matters.
@corngrass (727)
• Malaysia
28 Aug 08
Don't worry. Age is not a problem. Hold on with your relationship. Believe me, love "kills" everything that come into your way. =P
Girls at your age are mostly more mature than the boys. So, don't feel sad.
@mumaiybanez (156)
• Philippines
28 Aug 08
i dont really think it is an issue in a relationship..its all about attitude, anyway..be happy!
@anna0076 (45)
• United States
27 Aug 08
well three years is nothing but it all depends on your boyfriend. It is true that guys are more immature than girls, but if his responsible and doesn't act like a kid then you should be fine.
Don't sweat it, his just your bf it's not like you're getting married. you've only been dating for a week, give it more time and remember, don't worry if it was meant to be it's gonna work out.