when the LOVE fades...

I think that there are a lot of relationships that fall out of what people believed was true love. Married couples stay together for a variety of reasons such as the kids, security, and resignation. I personally think that they thought they were once in love but never really were. Love is a very interesting emotion. You must first ask, How do you know when you really are in love? Then, Is it possible to love more than one person? I have often thought that I was in love. Then things would happen and the realtionship would be over. I would think about it and hope to learn from it. I then had a relationship with a wonderful woman that I now believe is the only woman I have ever truly loved and still do. What was different with her was that when I was in that relationship, I could only think of her. No other woman could even get my attention. She was the only one I wanted and wanted to be with all of the time. No other woman had ever made me think this way even though I had enjoyed being with many of the others that I had been with. I suggest you think about love and what it really is before you get married. Marriage is supposed to be forever and if two people are really in love, then it should not be hard to fulfill. But considering the divorces we see every day, I think that a lot of the declared "love" is not really lovev at all.

yes i have experienced being in tht husband's place tht some1 can forget things about me entirely within a days time and things change after that to the extent that some1 is not even ready to see ur face and even talk to you or even tell you that wht went wrong...im glad im not married

ohhh that is very sad to know... i hope they will oversome that problems. they must do something to let the love grow and find again... or else, they will broke therir marriage

hi dear mumaiybanez, life is full of varieties of ups and downs. the winning in life is not that love fails but rather winning it back again against all odds! many divorces all over the world and more than that break outs and misunderstandings are the order of the day . and many social problems come up! custody of the children , their up bringing, schooling and many other things. and funny thing is man and woman both can not remain alone!!they again make readjustments in a new set up and repeating the same mistakes again!!then why not to adjust at the first place!!

Yeah..heard of that stories. The thing to ask is why she fall out of love. Is her husband has bad attitudes. Then they must work it out.But sometimes, we are always looking for something we don't know and we cannot see what we have. Hope it would be not late for her to realize that what she has right now is more important that what she's looking for.