Whom to blame?

Hi! Sometimes I do think about the wrong things that happened in my life and why I am here now in this situation. Well its not a bad situation actually but I'm sure I could have been in a much better situation if I didn't do this and that in the past or if i did this and that. But I guess thats how life goes. In every action there's an equal reaction. I don't really blame myself rather I try to learn from the past and avoid doing what is wrong and keeping up with what is good. I also try to widen my horizons and improve what I am now cause I believe by doing that I can somehow make a change in my life. I always keep a positive outlook in life. Ciao!

Sometimes things happen which are beyond my control and there is no-one I can blame. At other times I hold myself entirely responsible for the situation I'm in. Putting the blame on others can lead to resentment, hatred, fear, aggression and violence. It will lead to bitterness and make you miserable, because you will feel always as if you are a victim.