I'm really tired......

Understanding each other is very important in the relationship between you and your girl,but the common interest is also necessary.You love the girl a lot,but with the passage of time,you found the difference more and more.Then there was a crevice.I want to say is there is the course of true love never did run smooth.Frequently exchange the ider to each other ,you may find the common interests. Wish you happy every day!!

I think you really need to talk to each other.. maybe you need to know what are the things you like and you don't like.. If you really want to save your relationship and don't want your girl to be hurt then you are the one to make the first move..

Are also a lady just like your gf? Oh, it is always good to find people of this kind orientation here at myLot -- which is known to be a little bit conservative in terms of values leaning. Anyway, I am hoping that your lovelife is now back to where it should be. May you have a very exciting and enjoyable ride along the way!

Uh uh.. First love jitters I see.. I don't really know how to handle this situation since I don't know much about the kind of arguments and issues that you are having. But I'm telling you, if those issues are just trivial, I mean, if you can still work things out without killing (ok, that's so brutal, hehehe) and hurting each other, then why not patch the differences? I mean, you are two different people, of course differences are bound to arise, fights are normal, but you can always learn to compromise if you really want to be with that person. It's just a matter of accepting each other's shortcomings, accepting the fact that nobody can be perfect. But if you can't live with that and if it is destroying both of you, let it go then. You have to make sure you get out of the relationship intact and still full of belief in love. Sigh.. I really don't know where you should go from here, but I'm telling you, if you really love each other, this will definitely sting. Good luck though... God bless you always...