Have you search for your love or do you just wait?

i will b the waiting one ^_^ i try to search b4 but i can't stand any dissappointments anymore ^_^ therefore i think 'if he is meant to b mine, he will be mine', and he will come to 'rescue' me ^_^ when he found me, i will sing the song for him :"I've been waiting for u." yes, i'm the hopeless romantic type in nature ^_^ happy mylotting ^_^

i should say that i'm hopeless romantic! hehehe well seriously i just let fate to find me coz i'm tired of searching for mr. right. just like what the old's saying, it's like you're playing hide & seek. if you're searching, you will not find him, but if you just let love finds you, you will find him when you least expect it. ironic isn't it..

me? not anymore im been taken long agobut when im still single i jsut waited for the right man to came along..and lots of prayers i guess and it works actually..

I wouldn't really say that I am searching for love but I am open to finding love any time, so I guess I fall in the waiting category. I try not to close myself in a small circle with chosen people, I try to widen my network but I don't trust too easily. Better be careful yet at the same time take a risk. I don't really believe in SEARCHING for it, I think the more you look for it the more you won't find it. It's better to enjoy the journey of finding the love you've been praying for. Remember: It's not about the destination but the journey. Or whatever.

on my younger days i use to search for love, became hopelessly romantic until i found and lost it. and before i end up with my husband i just waited. from my experience, you will really never know who is the person you will love or who will love you in return. coz upon searching you maybe mislead, while waiting maybe he may not come. so be better be in between....

We don't need to search for love, or for the right one. Remember, in love, there is always a right time. You couldn't force anyone to love you. The best thing to do is just observe, feel your heart, and wait! Do not find love but yes, let love find you!

I gave up on love, and then love found me.

I searched and waited at the same time. I'm now happily married and being married for me is so fulfilling in a way that I feel I have done something good with my life. If you will just wait and seclude yourself from the world, there's a big possibility that you might not be able to find the person intended for you to spend your life with. You should go out and enjoy life. It will just arrive at the right place and time.

i think i am the person who leave it on fate and let love find me, but it seems hopeless,love is so far away from me.I am sitll searching for my true love.When it will come??? it seems a reachless waiting!

for this question, fortunately i have found my lover already. i think you do not have to search lover only just because you want a lover,you desire a lover.when the time is ready,it comes. no imposition on love!

My belief is that if you go looking for LOVE, you are often disappointed and sometimes deceived. When looking for love, we tend to see the things in another person that we are looking for, but ignore those qualities that we don't want in a partner until it is too late and end up with a broken heart or breaking the other person's heart. If we go looking for FRIENDS, we see all the qualities of that other person, the good and the bad. If we have no problems with their bad qualities, it can often develop into love. Once you develop a strong friendship with someone else, it is a good, strong base for love. You can't be happy if you love someone but don't like them as a friend. I strongly believe that relationships, like marriage, are the strongest when we are also best friends with our partner. Love doesn't always hold a relationship together, but true friendship is like the glue that binds that relationship. You need to be able to communicate well and talk openly about anything with your romantic interest. You should be able to like doing many of the same things together. This can only happen if you are also good friends. I had basically given up on ever finding a lasting love. I was 52 years old and had decided to live my life alone and just enjoying the company of my family. (I was divorced at the time.) All of a sudden, there he was. My best friend and true love basically popped up right in front of me! We talked for hours and hours. We loved watching the same movies and shows on TV. We enjoyed the same foods and cooked things together. This developed into a deep love and we were married a year later. 'Hopeless romantics' are basically people who are in love with love. They see the passion and idealism of another person and ignore the rest. Those relationships almost never last. You must be friends first. If love is there it will develop, quickly or slowly, but it will develop.

As a Man I am the one who is searching for the Loved of My Life and I am so fortunate that I really been glad to found my wife who has been waiting for the right person in her life and that was we are meant for each other and now we've been Married for 9 years already and Thanks God that in everyday cycle of life we still be in together......

i will go to find my lover .i do not think a lover will find you only for fate .it need our behavior

I think I've found the one for me. Or he found me. I wasn't searching for someone to "love" when we first met as I was just getting over a break-up from someone I thought was the love of my life. Met him at work, didn't like him at first, ended up spending some more time together, developed a crush, flirted, went on a date and voila! I never saw myself to be in an interracial relationship. I even vowed (when I was younger) that I would try to be with someone within my racial pool. But here I am, thankful for such a thing. Boyfriend and I somehow survived and enjoyed more than five years of cultural differences and general dorkiness.

im tired of searching. everytime i search, it seems like it is not the one for me. i always find myself going for my impulsiveness. i just broke up with my last relationship. now i decided just to wait. wait until i really feel like giving my trust and love again. i'd been to many relationships that didn't really end well, so im giving myself some rest from those pain...

hey, alecz23. Im the one that waiting all the time. I always think that someone i cant get might be the best, which can includes so many other things. You know, the beauty of waiting is keeping the distance between you and the one you like. Or maybe let love finds me~ I guess its all depends on the character and attitude people have.

I was once searching for love and waiting for it.. And I really prayed for it. And now I am very much happy with my partner. He was my first ever boyfriend and were already together for three years and still loooking forward for our relationship to last...There's nothing wrong when you're searching or waiting for love to come to you..Just be open with it and it will come..

Well honestly I just waited for it to come in my life.I am lucky that I have found it and that it has found me too. As for me it is ok to wait just make sure that you never let go of the chance for love.

When it happens it happens. I'm living my life right now and am not really looking for anything in particular. Taking each day as it comes and enjoying life to the fullest. If you live your life expecting something each day, you wind up missing out on the things that are passing you by.

hi alecz, for me I still wait for the right one to come to me.Maybe I'm just to lazy to find my true love..heheh.Im tired searching for the right one and still I cannot find the one that I will adore.So Ill just sit in here and let my heart sense if she'll be coming near..