Communication is irreversible
By FionaSuwana
@FionaSuwana (235)
Indonesia
August 27, 2008 9:17am CST
One of crucial characteristic of communication is irreversible..
The fact that communication is irreversible means that what we say and do matters,all of that has impact and sometimes we can't control it..
Once we say something to other person, that becomes part of relationship..
So remember,this principle keeps us aware of the importance of choosing when to speak and what to say or maybe not say anything ^_^
What do you think about this??Do you have experience about this??
4 responses
@kittenmc (464)
• United States
2 Sep 08
Very true. If we are not careful we can hurt someone without realizing. Also, people watch us all the time and sometimes we don't even realize it.
@FionaSuwana (235)
• Indonesia
11 Sep 08
Yap,we should be careful with our tongue.People watch us all the time,also they learn about us ^_^ thanks for your sharing
@aseretdd (13730)
• Philippines
28 Aug 08
I always believe that when we have nothing nice to say... it is best to just keep quiet... i got into a lot of trouble when i was younger... because i lack the tact needed when talking to others... but i have already changed... and i always try to think first before i open my mouth... or i might get into trouble...
@FionaSuwana (235)
• Indonesia
11 Sep 08
Yap,agree so much btw silent is golden hehehe
Nice to hear that--keep up the good spirit ^_^
thank you for the sharing
@tyc415 (5706)
• United States
27 Aug 08
I do agree that communication is irreversible and we should stop and think before we speak, especially when angry. This did happen TO me, not BY me. My oldest daughter and my granddaughter both on the phone said some very very hurtful things to me and also in the process said they have disowned the family and want nothing to do with any of us ever again. I was so crushed by this and so hurt that it did take piece of my heart and not sure if it can be repaired anytime soon. This has building up with them for the past few years and I should have seen it coming but even then it would have hurt all the same.
I am not the type of person to say angry or hateful/hurtful things to people and if I do get upset I will sit back and write it down and get it out of my system then destroy what I wrote. Sometimes I guess I am too easy going and get walked on and pushed around.
@FionaSuwana (235)
• Indonesia
11 Sep 08
Sorry to hear about your experience.I believe,it can be repaired soon-you're such a wonderful person ^_^
Yap, I agree so much about we should stop and think first before speak in every condition ^_^
Yap..it's so sweet when you're angry/upset,you will sit back and write down.
Nowadays, it's hard to find people like you ^_^
Keep up the good spirit,thanks for the sharing...
@didi13 (2926)
• Romania
2 Oct 11
Communication is involved, and as long as there is any get involved. If shut, it is obvious that you are not interested or, worse, are you interested, but of a hindrance in communicating your concern.
And you can communicate effectively if you approach if you are aware of all developments that had it at your side.
All efforts we make throughout life are steps of communication, involvement: establish a child relationships through play, we integrate the family, and notified the school, at work and in every aspect - the family or professional level.
Why do people communicate? For that I need to get involved, be related to others, to feel belonging to a group and to provide stability through knowledge.
Develops the ability to socialize, discover the inner world and outer, to express everything that can be said and unsaid in words.
Communication evolves with new converts and transforms us with every situation we live.
Communication ourselves, because we are involved in life.
