Is it really important say "iloveyou' everyday?

Philippines
August 27, 2008 10:57am CST
yes, for me it is important it's one way of expressing how much you love yor partner and letting him/her know that you are still inlove with her/him.
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14 responses
• Malaysia
28 Aug 08
Hi amzthienne, i'm agree with you, no doubt it is quite important that you partner express how much he/she love you. However, what i more concern about is, when he/she telling me that he/she love me, it must be sincere, cannot just saying because being forced to do so or just simply to entertain me.
• Malaysia
2 Sep 08
Hi amzthienne, yea, hopefully what he has been telling me is the sincere one. Anyway, i actually never ask him to do so to me, hehe :p
• Philippines
29 Aug 08
you're right he must be truthful in saying that not just simply to entertain but I guess he really mean it when he said that he loves you because it's so difficult to say it when you don't really love the person.
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@austere (2812)
• Philippines
27 Aug 08
if you ask me, it's not just important to say i love you everyday, it's important to say it everytime you feel like saying to the person you love. in a day's time, if i would really count it, i say i love you to my boyfriend an average of 30 times. well, that's not exaggerating. everytime we text, which is everyminute, i tell him what i am doing and i tell him i love him. sometimes, just out of the blue, i say the word. because it's true and because that's how i truly feel for him. it doesnt matter how many times you say it. it's how truthful you are to the word, well for us, we say it often because we are both very expressive about how we feel, and that's really happy!
• Philippines
28 Aug 08
hey, I can see that you're a very romantic person as well as your boyfriend... keep it up and I know everything will always turn out right for both of you. Thanks for the comment.
@austere (2812)
• Philippines
29 Aug 08
well, i pray for that.. i want to spend forevr with him and i am definitely happy with him! no problem. i truly enjoyed responding to your discussions! see you around and happy mylotting to you! cheers!
• United States
27 Aug 08
For me, no, it's not important. If hearing the words is the only way I know if someone loves me, I'd probably assume that they were just saying them to say them. The words don't mean a lot to me, and my partner doesn't need them to feel secure. But we still know that we love each other and let each other know in more truthful? ways.
• Philippines
29 Aug 08
I respect your opinion and thanks for sharing it. Of course, If we say i love you to a person we must always mean it, not for just the sake of saying it to make them feel secure that's useless right? We need to say it and show that we do really love that person. thanks again for sharing your thought. Happy my lotting...
• Philippines
27 Aug 08
I think you should say it when you really mean it. nOt just out of routine or not just for the sake of saying it. I've been married for 4 years, 9 years of long engagement before that. Never did a day pass without us saying I love you to each other. I dont know if it is just a routine for him, but when i say those three words, I mean it with all my heart. I am a very loving person, I am too scared to let a day pass without the significant persons in my life knowing that I love them so much. That's why i say it, that why i show it. But thats me, i dont know others will agree. Come to think of it, i can no longer keep track of how many times hubby & I exchange iloveu's in a day...thats pretty much a lot,lol!
• Philippines
29 Aug 08
hey, nice to hear that the engagement lasts for 9 years and still ended up with him. Some long engagements didn't turned out good and you're lucky that everything turned out so well. saying i love you everyday really works for you. And you're really a good example for all couple who are just starting. May you always be happy. God bless!
@vidhyavini (6111)
• India
28 Aug 08
Good topic . In my opinion its not a must to say I Love You daily. But when you feel that you just express it rather than having inside. Love has to be expressed in some form. Either the way we care for our partner or outings or the word I Love You or in some other form. It will always be good to express our love. People generally will stop expressing their love from 5 or 6 years after marriage. The relationship won't be healthy. Express your love and make your love stronger. Happy mylotting.
• Philippines
29 Aug 08
So nice to know that this topic is a good one for you. you're right,saying i love you not just everyday but everytime you feel saying so, telling and showing to your partner that you love him/her makes the relationship better and better everyday. And it really feels so good if your partner, love ones that you really love them make them feel that they are the most important person to your life. Happy my lotting too.
• Philippines
27 Aug 08
Hi there amzthienne! Yes i believe that it is important to say I love you everyday. Because being vocal is one way of showing your real intentions and feelings for a person. Although, nowadays, it is so easy to say iloveyou even if you dont mean it. And i have witnessed this a hundrend times in the chat room. Someone is suddenly sending you a PM and saying that he loves you even if you dont even know him. But despite of this, i havent loose faith in saying the word everyday...especially if you truly mean it. It would actually make your partner happy, so why not go ahead and say it right?
• Philippines
29 Aug 08
Thanks for still believing for the word i love you... yes, you're right nowadays, that word is already taken for granted by some people most especially the young generation. I've witnessed that too especially in the chat rooms. How I wish they would learn to value that word because it really mean a lot. right? thanks again.
@rosedust82 (2066)
• Philippines
27 Aug 08
Hmmmm... This is a good question. First thing that we have to clear is that we have to mean it... I would not say that to a person if I didn't feel it and if I didn't feel the need to say it. I'm very attached to my loved ones and I say this often because I want them to know that I do love them very much. I don't want to have any regrets in the future for not saying to them that I do love them... plus, it should not also end in saying those words, what's important is that you also show your loved ones that you really mean it.
• Philippines
28 Aug 08
thanks for sharing your idea. yes, you're right we should always tell to our loveones that we love them everyday and show them that we do mean it. you know, time is gold and we should always express and tell to our loveones how much we love them before it's too late. right?!..
• United States
29 Aug 08
I think that it is the most important when you actually mean it. If you say it to someone without actually meaning it, they are usually able to pick up on it. My boyfriend and I say it to each other every single day, especially because we aren't together very often when I'm away at college. It's something the two of us both mean very much.
@eihdra (3115)
• Philippines
27 Aug 08
Yup..I do say "i love you' to my husband everyday. Not only that, i say it many times a day or whenever i feel like saying it, and I really do mean it! it's like my day isn't complete if I haven't said that even in just one day.. You know im a very passionate and sweet gal. Sometimes, I say it in a whim..nothing, i just wanna say it but i mean it wholeheartedly..it's a spur of the moment.. I like expressing my feelings of love to my husband everyday..Even if the day didn't start right, I still get to say it when i have cooled down or when the argument is over....
• Philippines
29 Aug 08
Nice of you... I know that you always mean what you say and say what you mean. right? nice to know that you still believe in saying i love you everyday. I pray and wish that you'll always be happy in everything especially your family life. you deserve that... keep it up!!!
@mjmlagat (3170)
• Philippines
29 Aug 08
Yes, I believe so that it's important to say "i love you" everyday because it's a way of constantly reminding the person you love that he has been loved all the time. It may sound corny but I think it's a way to help flourish a relationship and prevent it from its deteriorating stage, so to speak.
@aj2webs (34)
• India
27 Aug 08
love is speechless
@chaijudin (506)
• Indonesia
4 Sep 08
hm.. say i love u everyday?? NO don,t do that he / she will get boring don,t talk to much but do it much don,t be NATO No Action Talk Only hahaha
@rocker21 (2716)
• India
27 Aug 08
Well everything depends on a person. Its useless to say if you dont mean it, and its useless to love if you dont say it
• United States
29 Aug 08
It depends on if you really mean it or you are just saying it like a daily ritual just like brushing your teeth... you do to prevent decay -- of your teeth or your relationship. I don't think its something that has to be done everyday -- but every now and then is acceptable. Then again it really depends on the relationship and if both parties agree. I was dating someone who was very clingy... and if I didn't say I loved you at least once a day he automatically assumed I was flirting with someone else that day. I really doubt that making it a must do everyday could be good for anyone... but that's just me thinking out loud...