Unrequited emotions, does break my heart

Yes, my ex-boyfriend, he was a really busy person and didn't have much time for me, but I fell head over heels for him. It was the first person I fell in love with. Since the break up, we've talked and he said that he felt we always had a strong connection and really good chemistry, it was just the timing- we were at different points in our lives. We broke up over nine months ago, and I have moved on, I'm in an amazing relationship now, but I still feel that I love my ex still. He will always be the first one that I loved. I'm finally at a point now though where I am more than happy in this present relationship, and I know I will never get back together with my ex, so maybe I'm not "in love" with him, but I do love him.

I am in a relationship where I love my wife very much but she is not able to reciprocate the same feelings because of her past. What shatters my heart into a thousand pieces is she still expresses her love for her BF (mylot/orkut/etc) without realizing how much it hurts me. Rather than trying to work at our relationship to bring us closer she prefers to let her BF know she is still there for him and still loves him etc. Things are going to change very soon and hopefully both of us can move on with or without each other. I pray god gives us the strength and blessings so we both find happiness.