What do you do when Elderly Parent is trying to run your life.

Many parents forget that their children have grown and have their own kids. They always think that they are still kids and it is difficult most of the times. I too have this problem most of the time. All I do is be diplomatic, listen to them, answer them well but do things according to my plans. It is difficult to tell them not to interfere because they love and care for us so that best thing to do is handle it tactfully.

At the age of 43 this seems to be a moot problem. You are lucky that you still have a living father at your age. I agree with the comment above me, just listen, be polite, and do things according to your own plans. You must remember that parents are parents from the day that you are born until the day that they die. That is to say, most parents CARE. You are way beyond the age where a parents opinion should cause you grief. But you should also respect that you're father is taking an active interest in the things you do. It's nice to have someone who cares for you in such a fashion. Cherish the fact that your father is trying to be an active and meaningful part of your life. Assure him that you have things well in hand but still appreciate his input. Silence