would reach out for ur frnd if he hasn/t contacted for u a long time?
@jhonymax2cool (424)
India
August 27, 2008 1:28pm CST
hi frnds my name is jhony and i had a really good and close frnd named Ajay v had so much fun when v r living in the same neighbourhood .he left delhi (where v lived0 due to family fights he had with his dad.now he is living in himachal and havent contacted e about his where abouts for past 5 years now.i m the only one askig from his family embers about him and even gave them my contact no.so that he would know where to find me or talk to me.but he never contacted now i m getting married and his family members r like after me to contact him and say my hellos to him and ask him to come attend my wedding.now i dont feel like talking to him . i would give a word for himin his family but i dont wanna ask him personally to come cause i feel like really mad at him for not contacting me for so long time and not trying even once to come visit me even in his vacation .so wht would u do if u were in my place?call him and personally invite him or say something to his family members so that he knows u r getting married.plz give me ur reviews.
2 responses
@checapricorn (16061)
• United States
28 Aug 08
H[i]i jhony,
You have also no idea about his life now, you know, he might have some difficulties or whatever! SO, if I were you, I will just humble down for this time and call him and personally invite him for your big day!ANyway, if until this time, he will ignore you that's his problem already at least you reach out!
I have friend in High School is was like that but she lost her old phone and that was the only number I got,, so , for 10 years, we have no contact then finally when she same to our province with her husband and kids, I was in the city working so, she got my number, until now, we never met after High School but talking again by txting!
BTW, congratulations in your coming wedding day! best wishes![/i]
@cherkeygrl (39)
• United States
28 Aug 08
without a doubt I would call him personally. You should remember that he must have been going through a very hard time fighting with his dad and having to move like that. He may not have been told that you had been looking to hear from him or even if he had, he may have had stuff going on that he was ashamed to admit to you or whatever. My point is that you will never know the turth unless YOU speak to him personally and not through his family. If he says no or something that you dont like, then you can at least know where you stand or you can spend the rest of your life wondering what if you had called him...would he have ended up being your childrens godfather (or equivalient) or something.
