do you issues on TRUST?
By chellymarz
@chellymarz (408)
Philippines
August 27, 2008 10:14pm CST
hi everyone. some people have difficulty in trust others. they said that trust is earned. you have to do something to gain the trust of another person. before i also have difficulty in trusting other people because in the past, many have destroy my trust to them. now, i give my trust to those who are worthy of trusting. how about you?
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@andrea0701 (4)
• Canada
28 Aug 08
I have trust issues in that I can sometimes trust people too quickly. Like, with one thing I wouldn't trust them, but then I tell them something that i shouldn't really trust them with.
Also, I've had people do stuff that I never thought I could forgive them for, huge breaches of trust, and yet I still trusted them again...sometimes I think i'm stupid lol
@xParanoiax (6987)
• United States
28 Aug 08
Oh yes. Doesn't everybody?
People usually have to work a bit to get enough trust to have a serious relationship with me. Trust is so hard to earn and so easy to lose, I try to hold everyone to the same standard to be fair about it.
My issues kinda are long-standing though, so...
@Adeliza1220 (877)
• United States
28 Aug 08
I have always been the type of person to automatically give someone trust and when the person ends up showing they are not an honest person whether it be small lies or big lies or betrayal then the level of trust begins to slowly decrease therefore causing me to lose the trust I once had for them. Unfortunately, even after I have repeatedly have told people that I don't care what the truth consists of as long as its the truth it seems as though many ignore that fact and do it any way in which my trust gets lost. I do admit and realize that we are all humans and things sometimes occur or are said for specific reasons and may have something behind it so I can build trust back even after a person has gone to the lowest level, that is just me though.
@longyinghan (145)
• China
28 Aug 08
i agree wih you.good boy.i am a easy boy.so i trust others easily.you,too.but that are not our fault.some people are worthy of believing.you know,one person cannot go longer without friend.come on.the life is just like this.it is not bad.if we want to trust others,first of all.we must to be one person they trust.that is all.good luck.