Do you kiss on your first date?
By rhyannefranz
@rhyannefranz (770)
Philippines
August 28, 2008 2:42am CST
It only happened to me on my current boyfriend, and I ain't regretting it. It happened
in the movie house, we were talking and he leaned towards me. And there was an attraction that was pulling me towards him. And then I suddenly felt his lips on mine.
It really didn't felt awkward because I really like him before I even go out with him. So do you think I did the right choice? Would you do the same?
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28 responses
@rhyannefranz (770)
• Philippines
31 Aug 08
ow you poor thing. With all those girls in your friend list? Thats quite disappointing. Well there will come a time for you. Just be patient and the right girl will come. Just keep on rocking rocker21.
@maxilimian (3099)
• Indonesia
28 Aug 08
If you like some one sumtimes it feels like that way, you didn't push him for that .. because you like him of course! __
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@cyberfluf (4996)
• Netherlands
29 Aug 08
I've only been in three relationships in my life and I haven't kissed on the first date. I would've with my current boyfriend if we both weren't so damn nervous because we liked each other a lot but both were affraid to speak our mind and get rejected.
If you like someone a lot I do not see harm in kissing on the first date, as long as you aren't dating different people every other night it's not so bad .
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@savypat (20216)
• United States
29 Aug 08
I think a lot of the time this is a cultural thing. In America a kiss doesn't seem to mean much, but then I guess many people are very casual about it. I don't know, but I have Grandchildren and each of them seem to have a different opinon about the subject.
@vinothkumar08 (474)
• India
2 Sep 08
no ya i didn't kiss my girlfriend on my first dating instead hugh her..i have not yet kissed any one except the small babies.i am awaiting for it...
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@DaddyOfTheRose (2934)
• United States
29 Aug 08
Oh, I don't know. First, I'm a guy. I'm also nearly 40 years old. I like to think people shouldn't be surprised by kisses. In general, I don't like that idea. I suppose I am a cynical guy and I would expect that your 'date' is sizing up your pliable and agreeable you are for physical contact and, thereby, to gauge how much effort it would be to get to some other goal in sight for him.
But, I can be a cynical guy, so I try to take my gut reactions with a grain of salt. Still, I would encourage you to have your boundaries and to speak up for them easily. Something like, "Excuse me, kissing is nice and all, but you really shouldn't just surprise a girl like that."
I don't know. I have a young daughter and I tend to want to avoid the situation where she's out somewhere with a guy and he wants more than a kiss. I want her to have the strength of will to easily state her boundaries. I want the guy that wants to just get what he wants to see my daughter as self-assured and willing to stand her ground. It is my hope that this jerk will choose a more pliant victim.
Like I said, I can be a sourpuss. :)
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@allen0187 (58582)
• Philippines
28 Aug 08
i haven't only kissed on a first date, i've done more than that on a first date darling!!! lol!
seriously, if it feels right and you know deep in your heart that there won't ber any repurcussions the day after, i think it's alright to kiss on a first date. i've dated girls that i find attractive so i won't mind kissing them on the first date. even when i was set up for blind dates, my friends made sure that i'll be attracted to my dates, i made sure i tell them what my type is as it differs on a monthly basis.
so if there ever is a chance to kiss on a first date, i take the opportunity. that first kiss might lead to somethign more beautiful and lasting in the end.
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@ANTIQUELADY (36440)
• United States
29 Aug 08
kisses are nice. enjoy every one u can get. i love hugs to.
@drsparkle314 (529)
• New Zealand
28 Aug 08
well let's be open minded, in our world today this seem to be a common situation... I'm not saying it is right or wrong... I guess it depends on the situation... well in your case you said you already like this guy even prior to your first date and that you don't regret kissing him... so if you don't regret anything then you shouldn't be too bothered... however, since such thing happened on the first date you should be mindful of your next actions... I'm not saying be paranoid but please do be careful to avoid this guy from taking advantage of you and hurting you in the end... I'm not saying he's a bad guy but there is nothing wrong if you'd be a little cautious to maintain your self-respect right? I mean you've liked this guy since before and he might have known that for a long time already too thus there are two possibilities, first he may really like you and second he may just appear to like you because you like him... technically kissing him on the first date made you a little vulnerable but it doesn't mean you can't be a little firm next time right... anyway I hope you two end up together and keep a love that's real and not something that's just based on physical attraction... good luck... keep it real...
@joyadalia (1408)
• Philippines
29 Aug 08
I think you made the right choice . You liked him before the date happened so it does not matter that you kissed him that first time.
@trexhero (103)
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28 Aug 08
I am currently with my first girlfriend but remember we did indeed kiss on our first date, in fact we kissed at the party that we met before we had any sort of arranged date so it goes to show that these things are not always straight forward cut and dry. I don't think people should regret kissing too soon unless its because they left a relationship or if the situation is more confusing than the general straight forward boy likes girl, girl likes boy, boy kisses girl, girl kisses boy lark.
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@bugbaby (1787)
• Indonesia
29 Aug 08
i think yes, you did the right think, but for my first date i am not do that to my dating, until a week for the second date i ask her," may i kiss your lips ? ", because i don't like to push my dating for having a kiss, late the love flowing and you can find and see your relation want it or not.
@n30wing (4767)
• Philippines
29 Aug 08
If I ever kissed her cause I like her... I really mean that kiss! It's a feeling that I won't regret in my subconcious. It's an urge!Anyway it's just a kiss... A kiss that I will not forget. I don't thik their is something wrong with a kiss. A kiss is a sign of affection. Have a nice day!
@sugarhigh0206 (175)
• Philippines
28 Aug 08
It depends upon the person. I dont usually kiss on first date especially if it is my first time to meet with him. I think its nit right. Maybe a peck on the cheek wold be ok. Dont forget to say thank you for him to know that you appreciate him for he prepare something.
@tatiana07 (497)
• Philippines
2 Sep 08
if i like him then i'll regret if i didn't kiss him even if its only our first date...(",)