How do you feel if people advice repeatedly about the same?..
By vidhyavini
@vidhyavini (6111)
India
August 28, 2008 4:48am CST
Hey guys.
When someone advises me for something I will just try to work it out. While working on it, they will continue to advise about the same. I just feel irritated about it. I will just say them to keep quiet. I feel discouraged about it.
How will you people feel if you are advised repeatedly about the same????
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10 responses
@happygill (46)
• India
29 Aug 08
it is good to give advise to others but only when they want.
one really get annoyed when someone always repeat same and same.
and next time he avoid to seek any advise.what u say
@vidhyavini (6111)
• India
29 Aug 08
Ya you are right. I am just afraid to go again for advices. Hehe.
@madhan0587 (72)
• India
29 Aug 08
they wont advice me...because i am always right...second thing i wont listen to any fellow...will simply do in my own style...
@vidhyavini (6111)
• India
29 Aug 08
Hehe. Lol. You are right. Even I do that. I thank God for giving us 2 ears. One for incoming and other for outgoing. Hehe.
@sanjana_aslam (4187)
• Malaysia
29 Aug 08
Hi Vidya
Guess i have the same feeling too ... especially when the person thinks that i am too stupid to handle what ever they have given us ...
Especially when the person doing it is my Mother In Law .........
cheers
@jutson (18)
• United States
29 Aug 08
hai vidhya
you are right aboviously every one will be irriated if some one keeps on giving advice
but there are some peoples who always gives advice to others and even they dont follow that
the only thing to stop those peoples is by telling thme to shut up
@vidhyavini (6111)
• India
29 Aug 08
Ya many doesn't follow that and want us to do that. That will be so irritating.
@rajannkalra (38)
• India
28 Aug 08
hi! vidhyavini i must tell u if some body s advising again an again its not their fault its jus they r suffring from a problem "compulsive obsessive disorder"....which s an common mental disorder...there r several symptoms for that like checking lock again an again or fear for an dreaded infection or checking a lpg gas stove even when u have locked th door etc....these people suffer from some kind of anxiety which s the result of a brain chemical which s a nuro transmittor.......these people r perfectionist an to repeat is the common problem.......so take it seriousily an pl advise them for treatement.....
@vidhyavini (6111)
• India
29 Aug 08
Oh my God!! I think you went so deep inside. I don't think its like that. Anyway happy to have your response.
@James72 (26790)
• Australia
28 Aug 08
I guess it all comes down to whether the advice is valid and if it was, did I actually take it? I agree that there is nothing worse than a broken record but sometimes a bit of pressure like this can actually be of benefit! If it is irrelevant advice then I too would get pretty irritated also.
@magna86 (1786)
• India
28 Aug 08
well thats really true vidhya!! if someone keeps on advising i get really irritated.. i feel like i am a baby and i cannot do things by myself!!! .. if the advice is given once then its k.. when people keep on saying the same thing again and again then anyperson in my state would get irritated!!!!
@vidhyavini (6111)
• India
29 Aug 08
Ya you are right. In my case they don't treat me like a baby and repeat that. But they will repeat that in some fear. What if I don't do that??? I will be like "Oh my God!! Allow me to try" Hehe.
@APPCHEM (113)
• Pakistan
28 Aug 08
it depends for what they are advising me. If its something which i am not keen to do it & still they are nagging me, then i will be very polite & just say that may be next time i will be more careful. But if it is something very important, then i will think seriously.