Have you ever felt just alone??

United States
August 28, 2008 6:00am CST
Well im a pretty happy guy with a decent job and a wonderful fiancée. its just that i have a feeling that i have nothing really to go to or nothing really accomplished. I have my high school diploma and i might be heading to college but i don't feel as if i have accomplished anything, as of now i have no car and living with a roommate while my fiancée is out going to school getting her high school diploma. In which im very proud of her and i hope she gets everything she wishes, i dont know whats really wrong with me except i just feel as if the world is going forword and i feel as if i have just stopped. Does anyone else feel this way?
4 responses
@eve301345 (658)
• Philippines
28 Aug 08
I am in the same situation. I live in one of the very expensive residential property in Manila, have car but when I meet people from around the world even if I know I am in better situation from them I feel I am nothing. I have not reach my career dream though so maybe that's why I feel this way. Maybe yours is the same.
• United States
28 Aug 08
Ah its true everyone that i share my life with is either to hard to understand my life or its just to bluntly out there and plain. Its true i have not yet reached my career and i dont live in a high dense residential i live in a low suburban place just trying to make a living but even though i live in this situation its all fine with me its just that there is something missing something that i have not yet done or something that needs to be done. everyone that is around me i love but i just feel either distant or just not very aware of it at the moment its like my mind is at another location while im with someone. but yeah thank you for your comment. Shawnzy
• Philippines
28 Aug 08
Hi eve, i read all of the downline comment, most of them have some feeling of loneliness. yeah im also feeling Lonely sometimes. it means Life is a combination happiness and Loneliness. happy in a sense that are someone Who makes us happy and Because of unfulled Dreams, maybe it is emotional, Carreer etc
• Philippines
28 Aug 08
Hi Eve, i read all the downline comment on your Question, I therefore conclude that no one is fullfilled and Happy. yeah Because Life is a combination of Happiness and Loneliness. Ya, i feel so Lonely sometimes and there is a kind of feeling that i cant explain , i chill just get my jacket just to cope up till to sleep. i dont know. It means we are happy because there is someone who makes us happy and we are Lonely with some failures in our Life. It maybe due to failures, may it be Lovelife, Carreer, Unfullfilled wish in short. But i know we can survive day by day with the help of the LORD. Hope you understand what GOD purposes to our Life. Just continue to pray everyday and evrey night
• Kenya
28 Aug 08
Hi I have felt alone too. My parents got seperated and apparently im the only sibling. Working and having friends, I have come to realise is not all we need to feel contented. I personally have found fulfillment in the word of God and fellowship. hope this will help you too.
• United States
28 Aug 08
Im very sorry for what happend to your parents sometimes things just dont work out as planned. And also attending a religion is pretty satisfying but its just not for me even though its sopposed to help u emotionally and to cap on your inner thoughts and think there is a better life later on is a great way to think of a better future but for now i just need something that can help me with this its just lonesome and a very dark feeling within just wishing i could get out of this feeling.. Shawnzy
• India
28 Aug 08
You are I thin in the early age of your life and still enjoying the wealth of your parents. Dear challenges in life are ahead. You have to struggle. Having good funds and a nice fiance is not the life. What about accomplished feeling it is quite a day dreaming. Do not worry every thing will be ok. Have a nice day.
• United States
28 Aug 08
hmm maybe so but my father passed away and i live with my roommate so its not a real lushness life but i do enjoy my time with my fiancée. but thank you for your comment and make sure ill have a wonderful day. and i truly hope everything goes well for you as well. Shawnzy
@APPCHEM (113)
• Pakistan
28 Aug 08
not always as i have a lovely daughter & husband who are always there in my life. but there are times when i feel very low & even though when i am in a crowded place the feeling of loneliness is always there.
• United States
28 Aug 08
yeah i have the same feeling even if there are people all around me i feel as if im still alone, and sometimes actually just space out until someone tries to talk to me. but just late at night i just feel very lonesome and just wish there was something that could make me feel a bite more comfortable about myself. I think its something about my past or something i just would love to find out what is either missing or isnt finished just yet. Shawnzy