does love ever dies?
By saroodebolan
@saroodebolan (408)
Pakistan
August 28, 2008 6:55am CST
does love ever dies? does it die when a person dies, or is lost, or it continues?
1 response
@bhargav17 (21)
• India
30 Aug 08
Sorry I am going to disagree. I think that once in love always in love.
The difference is that you can overcome it and stop being a doormat to be used and abused.
The love will fade. Grow weaker. But, it will still be there. It will remain a part of you.
It is a wonderful gift to give someone. If they abuse it, that is not you fault. If you let them keep taking advantage of you that is your fault.
I am going to agree with once a cheater always a cheater. Once someone learns they can sample from time to time they will continue to have that desire. They might be able to restrain it, keep it locked away. But, it will be there waiting for a weak moment to come out.
Also once cheated on you will never really be able to forget that. You might forgive. But not forget. I think that is like a cancer that will slowly destroy the relationship. Thoughts will come unbidden to haunt your day or night. It is not your fault. We are human and this is just something that happens.
So once cheated on I suggest you recover your self-respect and move on. Being the one who is cheated on can really kill your self-respect. You wonder "wasn't I good enough" and "what did I do to hurt him?" The truth is you may have done something, or you may not have done something. But HE was the one that instead of talking to you about his hurt or lack of fulfillment went out and found it elsewhere. So it was not your failing. You are the victim, realize that, accept that, and then resolve to learn from it.accept that, and then resolve to learn from it.
Try not to become jaded or cynical. You will find someone you can trust, who will be all you hope for.