Married and Flirting anyone?

For me, flirting, whether intentional or not is really not my style. Once you get married or is in a serious relationship, one should be mature enough to treat it as something serious. I mean, why should one flirt with someone other than your own partner? For the thrill? Then why are you in the relationship. Flirting can start as harmless but later on graduate to being harmful. You don't play with fire unless you are not looking for a mess. My husband does not flirt (or I don't see it) but if I find out that he does, more than jealousy, I would get HURT. I would feel betrayed.