Im getting fed up with helping people!

Maybe it's because I'm new. But I thought you weren't supposed to just say thanks, although I thought that seemed odd. I have read a variety of opinions. I don't know if I should respond to people who comment all the time if there's nothing else to say but I do want to acknowledge their response. If you have helped them out they should definitely respond.

yep,well annoying. If you have helped someone then they should at least have the common decency to say thanks, i truly hope i have notmisse anyone out that has helped me as i would hate them to think i am rude. One good turn deserves another

yes this happens me all the time in life, not on my lot cos i dont be on often enough. I have now learned that if someone wants help or advice or information once you let them know that you know something about it or have info, it is up to them to ask. I have sent info to alot of people mainly about health and what they can do to help themselves besides waiting for the medics or priests or whoever to cure them but most of them have never done anything that was in the information. so i am stopping. they wont act on info unless they are interested or of the same mind. I can see your point on mylot though. If they ask for advice it would be nice to get some feedback on your advice. People are weird or maybe too caught up in their own world or troubles to think of what is a nice thing to do.

I understand. It doesn't take that long to say thank you to someone. Sending emails to help someone is taking time away from you and you are taking the time to HELP THEM. I think you at least deserve a thank you.

Listen, This is the human tendency, u have accommodated a person or a friend and advised him to execute and under stand some thing. He will before executing your advice would like to thank you for your immediate response. Certainly after seeing the result of your advice he will again come to you to again thank and seek further advice. Do not get so. It pained me when any body's feelings are hurt. How you like this please share and comment.

Hi Ritz100, Yes that has happened to me as well, I respond to their discussions and they never get back a replie, I don't think its manners. Tamara

Dear friend,I do greatly appreciate your positive spirit and outlook in rendering self-less servicces to others in the midst of your busy life.It is a great passion and noble work;do not give it up and never mind it's outcome and result in terms of responses you receive from others.In the way of helping others, you will profusely be rwarded and benefitted from some sources or other.I do experiences similar situations,but do not bother too much what feed back,I receive from others. Have a nice day!!

Hi, You know what? I have experienced the same thing. People ask for help, you do everything that you can to help, then they either do not respond, or they just tuck the information to the side and do not even bother to say "thanks". It is an extremely disheartening experience to say the least. Maybe now that you posted this, more people will learn to show some basic appreciation. Have a great one!

i feel that people have been saying no thanks to you,i am sure we are very grateful for their help

It happens to all of us. People come here and start posting stuff and don't have a clue what they're doing. They hear that all they have to do is post a discussion to get paid, so that's what they do and then don't bother to come back and read anything. They are the people that will watch their earnings and nothing else and come back and complain that the site is a scam because they posted something and didn't earn anything. Nothing you can do about people like that, just continue to help those that do appreciate it. They make up for those that don't.

That would really irritate anyone. Those people must begin to study again and must have learna agood moral character back in kindergarten. You seem to be too good in helping other people. Just forget about that experience and i hope that you will never stop from helping other people. Godbless!

I'm sorry that people haven't been saying thank you to you, I'm sure they are very thankful for your help you have given them. Anyway can I say a BIG THANK YOU on all there behalf?? Isn't the same I know but want to cheer you up and make you feel wanted here, you are a wanted person on here. Hope I have made you smile

I am sorry you had to go threw it .. its sad people can't beven be polite and say a simple thank you .. well you know who your friends are and those are the ones you help.. Thanks for the post .. good luck to you Hugs me

Yeah, i've suffered from this. But i think they must have done their own business. I won't get fed up with helping people forever. I think I can pay out something to others

hi Ritz you are so right to be upset. if someone had helped me in the ways you are discribing I would surely thank the person by sending back an email of thanks. I havent been in this situation, in fact right now I am in a bad situation as my son, whois the only breadwinner, has been out of work for almost a month and now the bills are coming in.

Hi. i have to agree the more you help the more you get stuck with everything and then you have to deal with what kind of friend you should be been there done that