Shocking News: I don't think I can handle this

Oh I am so sorry for what you are going through. I know how hard it was and I will pray for the fast recovery of your son. There's really a lot of company that is closing or reducing on cost of employees and I am also a victim of that. I was still trying to look for my new work and it's one reason why I haven't logged on to this site for a quiete a while. Just try to be strong for your family and I'm sure that God will give you the answer.

Neil, I'm so sorry for what has happened in your life! A sick child always comes first, but a lot of employers tend to forget about that. They don't care about your reasons or family needs, they just want you THERE. This kind of company does not see you as a human being. You are simply an employee. So, first of all, this company, even though you've worked for them for 9 years, is NOT a good company! There's a better one out there for you. Start looking for another job as soon as you possibly can. Don't put it off until after the 31st. A better job will come your way. I know it will and you WILL find it! Secondly, tighten your belt as much as you possibly can without hurting yourself or your family. Even changing one lightbulb to a dimmer one will save you more than you think! Reuse bath water for washing floors, hand laundry, etc. It will save you money on water AND the electricity that heats it. Third, do as much myLotting as you possibly can right now! The extra money just might see you through until you can find that new, better job. If you don't find another job before the 31st, spend the time you'd normally spend at that second job here, making as much as you can. I know myLot doesn't pay a lot, but it does pay some. The cost of fuel is going down here in the States. It has already dropped about 50 cents per gallon. I hope it's the same there. If so, remember that you'll at least be saving that small amount, too. I think most of us have gone through periods of extreme hardship. It makes us stronger and more determined. You'll get through this. Your family here at myLot will be here for you, always, for encouragement and moral support. Remember that.

Oh GOD, thanks you got the job. Because in todays world it is very difficult to get a job.And may be , the problem associated with your child could be due to the medicines he take.You should suggest him to do yoga on daily basis

Hi neil..I will send some distant healing out to your son..that is very sad news...and as for your job you have all my sympathy so many people are suffering now because of all the reasons you have stated and more..its as if the government have closed a blind eye to all the crisis they have put people in my prayers are with you my friend and will pray that you will find a new job or be ablr to stay on at this job...your friend blessings littleowl

Oh my friend that is so sad a news! Your son is sick and then losing your second job! That could really be depressing! But wait, there is always hope! You have a skill don't you! God gave you some skill and therefore getting another job to replace the lost one is not impossible. Believe me, you can always survive. You can always go to God for every trial that come your way specially if you think they are beyond your capacity to handle. As He promised: "Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened and I will give you rest." (Matthew 11:28. Just trust that He is there to help and see you through all these problems. Remember Footprints in the Sand? It is during difficult moments in life that God carries us. Bring those burden to the Lord. Ask for His help. He is ever merciful and always there to help. And in closing I wish to give you this inspiring verses from the book of James: "Blessed is the man who perseveres under trial, because when he has stood the test, he will receive the crown of life that God has promised to those who love him."(James 1:2-4,12 Rest assured that I have already said a prayer for you. God bless!

this is really one bad news from the company to tell you they are placing you off your job. hopefully that they will consider again their decision. they should consider that you have been in their company for a long time. anyways if they will not consider their decision again. that you should look for a job now. i think you will not find it difficult for a job cause you have a very long time experience on your job.

Oh no!:( im sorry to hear about your son and this job of yours ( the second one) even though youll no longer be working there mabey you can fill out an application in another section of the company? if not that is really sad:( nine years of working there and there just ganna say. we no longer need ya the 31st is the last day? thats really messed up. mabey you do wanna find another job:(. i wish all the luck and best wishes to you and your family.

hi neildc sorry to hear this and welcome to the club, my son, our sole provider, lost his job almost a month ago and we are really struggling as I am old and retired and handicapped,its a scary situation and I can but pray he gets a job really soon as the rents coming up and utilities, all those expenses. my heart goes 'out to you and I so hope we both can get some real help jobwise and money wise. good luck and God bless. hatley.

Do you know that I am having a similar problem right now ? I lost half my income for the month when a friend, an old one at that, and much treasured, let me down badly, really very badly. So now I have to depend on extra work, here and there, to get by for the month. Also, at the end of next month the bank will take two instalments on my loan out of my salary because I didn't pay the one for this month. If that isn't bad enough, I had the first full meal for the week just now in a restaurant here in Port of Spain. Because I've had no gas in my stove since Tuesday until tonight when, hopefully, my landlord, who provides the gas, will be back from Canada. Just pray, dear, just pray. I am doing it and I will survive, beleive me. Just pray.

I don't know how to reply. I know whatever I say wouldn't help much. It may just comfort you or just widen your perspective about life. There are really shocking news that we think we can't handle. But remember we will not experience such problems if we can't solve it. Clear you mind and widen your views. Though bills will be piling up one after the other, it is a test for you how to handle such situations. I am young to advice but with a little experience, I know that in every downfall or closing ... there is always an opening. Just be sensitive enough to know where these doors are opening. Hang on. It is not the end. You have a family with you. Take care

Hi neil, It is just one thing after another, what is going on? you must just think about your son for the moment and then worry about your second job later, it can't get much worse, try and look for another job mean while and I wish you the best of luck. Tamara

Dont get why the problems come, and they come in BULK packs!not one by one to good people. Try asking why are they ending you with your second job and take care of your son i think he needs another checkup! i dont know but i am getting worried that your son is not okay still! get a checkup done again!

I am so sorry that all of this is happening to you. I hope that you can find another job soon and that everything will work out for the best for you.

I have come across these kind of situations but always self motivated expecting god prepared somthing better than this and thats the reason why he (almighty) askimg me to move on. So Niel there good time ahead to you. Please be patiant.

[i]Hi neildc, I know I am late to respond in this post, I was inactive for the past few days, anyway, I responded already in your follow up post for this! So, just pray and I know God will never leave you and your family! You are very hardworking and your family is blessed to have you![/i]

I hope you can find another job soon. It's more important to take care of your son now. I hope he is feeling fine by now. After he feels better, you can concentrate more on looking for a job. All the best and God bless.

Neildc, Can't believe that you are being laid off after 9 years at a job. I guess that is a reflection of how difficult your economy is in the Philippines. I sure hate to hear that. Perhaps you can talk with them about at least working part-time or something. Obviously, if they've kept you on for 9 years, they have liked your work. I am sure it is frustrating to think about starting a new job search. But, if you did that before to obtain this job, you can probably do it again if you have to. I am sending good vibes your way. Do take care, neildc. And good luck.

This is too much best. How can they do this to you? But I guess, you have to move on. There's much better company that you can find that needs your services. Remember, this is just God's trial to you to see how faithful you to Him. God has better plans for you. Be strong best, you'll surpass this trial. As I always say to you, always think positive. God will provide. If there's anything that I can do to help you, just tell me ok. HUGZ!

Oh no!I'm sorry this happened to you neil.But everything happens for a reason.God has a better plan for you.Be strong and keep your faith.Ask His guidance and He will help you.These are just trials in your life.You will be fine!

First of all whatever situation you are in right now is with you because it is permitted by Someone Higher than us to happen. He won't allow you to have and undergo all these problems if he knew you could never take it. So, be strong, hold on and trust in Him completely. It won't hurt to be always positive. Think ahead and plan. So, as not to be taken by surprise. Start to deal with the problem head on, this you can do by accepting reality right now. Talk with your boss. Explain the dilemma you're in. Be humble and pray that he'd understand and won't fire you.