What would you choose - Love or Career???

it is not easy for people to choose from love and career. coz some people are more working oriented since they think career is above everything. and if they have successful career. they are likely to have good love. of course. there are some people who would take love as their most important thing in their life. so i am not really sure whether love or carrer is important to people or to me. coz now i have no love and my career totally sucks. good day.

It depends on the surrounding circumstances. Why wouldn't my love want me to go ahead with a career advancement or an upgrade-job? Is it because of insecurities? Is it a silly or selfish reason? Can it be resolved and is the job really important to me? These are all questions I'd have to answer before choosing.

if this was asked to me a few years back, i would have always chosen career. but having been there, i now choose love because without love, you won't have anyone to share your love with then it is meaningless at all.

First off, I'm a girl. With that aside. I would say I would choose the career but I will not lose love in the process. Why? If a person loves me then that person will wish my success and not pull me down because of his feelings. Imagine. You have this greatest opportunity in your life and you will just let it be swept away just because you're held back by your lover. Here's the thing/ A true person that loves you will not let you sink. They will let you be better. When the person understands how important your career is to you, then that person loves you and will not leave you.

This is a toughie. Truly here is how I would go about it, using an example. My passion is dancing. If I were involved with someone and it started to get serious, and then I got an opportunity to live my dream, but I would have to move away, I would take it. I am just as much a sucker for love as the next guy or gal, but this is my dream. If me and my significant other were serious to the point where he knew that this was my passion, I wouldn't expect him to stop me. He has the option to go with me and maybe even talk things through with me so we can figure some things out. Ultimately, if you are with the person you were meant to be with, they should not hold you back from your dreams. They should embrace them just as you should their dreams. The point of being in a relationship is to want to meet someone who makes you want to be a better person. It's kind of hard to do what you love when someone else who is supposed to love you, tells you not to. I am a hopeless romantic, but reality is what it is. You have to do what makes you happy. Because if you're not happy, it's going to be really hard for you to want to make someone else happy. Do what you love, and when you meet someone who you're meant to be with, it will happen naturally, and while every relationship has it's compromises, your happiness should not be one of them.

I would go for my LOVE anytime. PERIOD.

I would choose love over a career because as long as I have that person beside me, then nothing else matters.

It depends on the situation hiteshurp... For me i havent been in such a state with my guy and i really dont even want to imagine about that situation for me both are important i just cant plainly say everything if the girl is really loving her guy then she should really think of her family if everything is ok i mean if its like her family is not depended on her there is no wrong in choosing love as her choice but if a girl who's family members badly need her financial support then she has to speak to her guy about this situation asking her guy to support her family for sometime depending on the guy's answer then the choice can be made here... i answered you from a girl's point of view.. but hiteshurp i just want to know your reply as you havent mentioned in the main discussion

I would defiantly choose love over a career. Though I would hope that my love would want to go with me and persue my career. If there weren't any options though I would defiantly choose my love over any career.

i know u ii b surprised a li'l bit but its true that i ll choose my love BECAUSE FOR THE PERSON I LOVE I CAN DO NYTHING N THAT MEANS ANYTHING... WHO THE HELL CARES 4 CAREER WHEN HAVING A TRUE LOVE..

i think this is the major and most difficult decision to make because, both aspects r very important part of life. if there comes a situation when u have to leave ur career for the love of ur life, it will be very difficult for him to be successfull in life. now if the person leaves love for his career, then he will never be happy unless he finds love elsewhere. as u know true love is hard to come by. so it is very important to judge oneself before making this difficult decision...as this decision alone can change someone's life foreover

I go for career, because careers are not always there, its an opportunity. after my career then I'll choose love.

Love is compromise. Two person both have to do some change for the other.

I would definitely choose career because i believe if your love one really loves you she would understand the nature of your work. She would understand the pro's and con's of your job. She would understand you no matter what. Opportunity knocks only once so better grab it and soar high.

Hello hiteshrup .well for me .it’s a graduated from an college and began my first job. At the same time .I met a girl .and she was just finish school .but my work is not jarless .I still move from one place to another place .so we have little time to keep our love. At last .I made a decision and changed my second job .now I works in a littoral city and my girlfriend will come to with me next month.and we will stay this city together . There is no question about that I choose this job something must be sacrificial.Yes. If I still stay my first job my wage is higher than my second .but I am not regret it .after all earning will improve day by day and also a important reason is my girlfriend will stay together with me . Tomorrow everything is nice !

well if i have a good career maybe ill choose my career, now if also i have a good love then ill do both. we can do it at the same time. its a matter of proper schedule.