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Hi there Monika! i am really sorry to hear about what's happening. Maybe you should have a final one-on-one intimate talk with your husband to clear things out and to know what your next step would be. I hope that you guys will be able to settle this.

Hi monika!i know you are in a bad situation like this.i've also faced similar kind of problems in my life.the interference of in-laws in my life also is the same.everytime i use to tell my husband but he believed his mother.the day my huband did "landmark form" ,he started thinking.god!he's so changed from that time.now even i dont ask him why,when & what?i strictly believe what belongs to you or what you deserve you get it otherwise not,no matter how much fight or struggle for it.my suggestion to you is dont be nagging,accept whatever situation comes ,believe your god & most important love your husband unconditionally.show your in-laws that their interference doesnt affect your relationship with your husband.you ever leave your husband -agree to him whatever he says to you.just handle the situation right now dont break!

it is quite simple. even before your family people try saying something about or against you, you yourself read their heart and mind and be the first one to recommend it to your husband on their behalf which makes every situation cooooool. and that way every one and all situations will be in your control after any parents would want the good for their child no matter how old would their child be. don't forget tommorrow you are also going to be int eh same shoes. be pacified and build relations. similarly just think even at your mothers house may be your sister in law is facing similar situations as you. right? just resolve with amicable attitude.

Hi monika, I have faced similar situation. we do not live with my inlaws as my husband works in another city. Both my parents in laws want me to stay with them not with their son. Since my husband is only son they feared that I will separate their son from them. My in laws provoked my husband over phone he then start abusing me by mentally and physically. Once he told my father that he don't want to stay with me but he told that if he do so he will send them jail. After situation become some how normal. his friend also put some oil in the situation. After birth of my son the situation become normal.but when my son become one years old it start again.Once he beat me fiercly I called his collegue who live near me and I told him that I want to go police station immediately.I want lodge complaint under Domestic violence laws in which A police officer visit premises after every 15 days.But his friend request me not to do same. After that my husband start realizing his mistakes. In one occassion he told his parents that due to them he good image destroyed among his parent. Now he loves me too much. My view become bold and handle the situation tactfully. When your husband told you in favor of mother in laws and try to humilate you.Don't argue just say him "I am always wrong in your eyes so I do want to clarify. I don't want to argue with you just leave me alone" it will work

i think you should talk to him about it... tell him that hez being a typical man... by the way which country are you from?

hi there... that is such a sad story, sorry to hear about that. well, in times like that, there is only one solution to your problem, i think the best to do is to talk it out with your husband and settle it. good luck and hope everything well be fine.