how angry would you be, if your girlfriend kissed other guy in front of you?
By rocker21
@rocker21 (2716)
India
9 responses
@n30wing (4767)
• Philippines
1 Sep 08
I think if that ever happened to me I will just walk out and she will never see me again. It's the nerve! I still have my respect for myself and dignity. If it's for her reason doing to me that way for short she just want to get out of the relationship,and no question ask or talk about it anymore. Have a nice day!
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@michfroi (413)
• Philippines
1 Sep 08
this revelation is really shocking but if i were to see my partner kissing another in front of me i would be angry of course. some of our partners fooling behind our back but this thing is very unusual. where did she get her courage to do such thing. but if that really the case, im sure i will get mad and to the extent that i might hurt them physically but as much as possible i would stay calm, and let them leave.
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@angelia286 (2029)
• Singapore
2 Sep 08
Okay.. i am a girl, lol, so I will speak from a girl's point of view.
It's bad enough that your boyfriend/girlfriend who is supposedly in love with you be kissing other guys/girls behind your back, what more right in front of you! If my boyfriend is doing that to me, well, he had better have a very good reason for that!
Actually, I don't think that there is any excuse for my boyfriend to be doing that in the very place! If he is in love with me, why would he do that and delibrately hurt me? I believe that one should treat others the way you would like to be treated. And I am very sure that my boyfriend would not want to be treated in this manner too!
If he were to do that, there is only one clearcut reason for it. And that is he wants to breakup with me, but unable to gather the courage to say it outright to me. Hence, he would do this type of actions in front of me, for me to initiate the breakup. I wouldn't be very comfortable with this (unless its on the cheeks as 'Hello') Other more intimate actions than this would just result in me standing there and staring.
I don't believe in outright public displays of outrage (I'm not a performer for others to see). Thus, when they are done, I will just say to them something along this line: That was a very nice performance. Are you done? If you are, then I'm gone. And I will just walk away.
It's better to maintain a bit of dignity and do that and show to my 'boyfriend' that he is just beneath me to even let me lose my cool. That would just be sweet revenge. I'm not sure about you. What's your take on this?
@kun2349 (23381)
• Singapore
15 Sep 08
Very very angry for sure.. BUt i won't wanna scold her in front of the guy, and let the guy take more advantage from the situation.. Instead, i will pull my gf to leave with me, and talk in a peaceful manner.. And depending on her reasons, or whatever reasons, most likely i will leave her, because she din respect me in the 1st place, and that's it..
But no matter what, she's still a woman, she still deserves some respect by not scolding her or insulting her in front of another person ^_^
@Adeliza1220 (877)
• United States
2 Sep 08
Well of course this situation would be uncomfortable for anyone that does not believe in an "open" relationships. If my boyfriend ever did that I most likely would react at the moment and truly you could expect anything. I do not believe in physical abuse so I would not slap him, I would be so angry but be the bigger person and walk away from that situation because it is obvious they never had any respect for me then why should I give them the attention that they never deserved in the first place. That is just not correct for them to do it in front or behind my back.
@tatiana07 (497)
• Philippines
2 Sep 08
hmm i'll be calm but afterwards i'll confront him..make sure that he has valid reason for doing that infront of me or else bye bye bye...